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SPIRIT OF THE FAMALE.

SPIRIT OF THE FAMALE.

Introduction

This book is especially written for girls and women who in the 21st century have entered a time of emerging feminine power. A time of equality and self growth, that in combination with the masculine power of all males on the planet, will ensure that miraculous changes occur to all humanity and life on Gaia. Our aim is not to promote superiority or dominance in females, but rather to show all women and girls that they are truly equal to and complementary to males. That their special yin energy is a positive and essential element in nature and in the Divine Plan.

Women are not secondary, submissive, negative or weak people. These are stereotypes that have been promoted in the past by males, to ensure that they have dominance and influence over the females in their society. We do not promote anger, resentment or irritation at this manipulation of women in the past, for it does not help the feminine cause, but instead, have written this special e-book to help all women and girls understand that they are very special unique beings who are living on Earth at this time, for a very special purpose and that their femininity and female power should be fully celebrated! Please join us in this extraordinary mission!

In this book we shall be using certain terms that may need some initial explanation. Firstly please note that this book is written for both heterosexual women and homosexual women. Spirit sees no difference, we are all angels in human form. However, as it would be too difficult to write this knowledge from both viewpoints when talking about partners, she/he etc. we instead ask you to mentally substitute the appropriate pronoun.

GLOSSARY OF TERMS

Adonai has two meanings. As a farewell it means May God Be With You and as a title it means Master or Lord.

Archangels give guidance, love and support to humanity. Archangels never incarnate but oversee the Earth and the Universe as representatives of the Godforce. Amongst the most well known are Uriel, Michael, Ariel and Gabriel.

Ascended Masters are divine beings such as Mary, Isis, Sananda, Buddha etc.

Auras are the natural energy fields around the body that indicate your emotions, thoughts, physical health and spiritual connection.

Awakening is to begin to realise that there is a spiritual or higher purpose to your life on Earth.

Blocks are obstacles or problems in your life, that are caused by damaged or unopened chakras.

Chakras are energy centres of your physical and spiritual body that draw in Chi/Ki energy from the air around you. They help regulate your health and emotions. When blocked or damaged they cause ill health, mental, emotional and spiritual problems.

Channelling is a psychic skill that can be learnt and practiced by most people. It is connection with Beings, on other dimensions, through thought or voice projection.

Demeter ( pronounced Dem-ur- tur) represents the mother, the wife, middle age of females.

Devas are nature spirits such as fairies, nymphs etc. They work with the vegetation of the planet in its growth and protection.

Elementals are spiritual guardians, devas of particular kingdoms eg. crystal or water.

Enlightenment is a spiritual state of fully understanding and experiencing yourself, the Universe and God.

Fourth Dimension is a dimension of higher spiritual and psychic skills, illusion and awareness.

Free will planet is the term given to planets such as Earth, whose inhabitants are able to consciously decide their own destinies and actions.

Gaia is the spiritual name of the planet Earth and is a spiritual being in her own right.

Godforce, God Source, Godhood, Creator, Spirit are all names for a Supreme Divine Being.

Guides are Angelic Beings from a higher dimension, that come into your life when needed, to guide, protect and teach you. They may be with you throughout your entire life or for a specific period of time, until a task is accomplished. They never command or demand.

Hecate (pronounced Hek-a- tee) represents the Crone or elder wise woman.

Higher Planes/realms, Upper Dimensions and Heaven are all places of advanced spiritual awareness.

Higher Self is the part of you that is infinite, that has not incarnated. To this more perfected part of yourself, you send information through your life experiences.

Karma is the reaction to any action you do. If you do good deeds then you are rewarded with positive events. If you do a negative deed, you are penalised with a negative situation, in return.

Life and World Plans are created before incarnation, as vocations and tasks you wish to experience and develop successfully. Your Life Plan normally, is your desired vocation which evolves from your training, talents and instincts. Your Life Plan often incorporates your World Plan, so that your skills are used for a higher aim, such as helping humanity or the planet.

Light is a divine energy used for healing and information.

Light Body is the physical body changing to a finer, more spiritual form, full of spiritual information (Light) and the dormant psychic skills reactivating.

Light Worker the name for an awakened person who is consciously working from the Highest intent, to spiritually raise themself, others and the planet, to a higher way of being.

Manifestation, manifesting, is the ability to focus the mind on an object or situation and have it come into physical being.

Masters are beings such as Sananda, Mother Mary, Kwan Yin, Buddha etc who have perfected themselves and ascended from the third dimensional form to one of higher Light. They serve as a perfect example for humankind to reach Godhood.

Persephone (pronounced Pur-sef-an-nee) represents youth, young feminine energy of girls and young single women.

Spirit is a representation of the Godforce, no matter what dimension it is on. You are spirit, guides and angelic beings are spirit, the Godforce at its highest level is spirit. Spirit can also be termed as a place such as heaven i.e. being in Spirit

Starseed is a young light worker born after 1970.

Third Dimension is physicality on Earth.

Twin Flames are people on Earth with whom you have the highest emotional, mental and spiritual rapport. Normally they are of the opposite sex and work with you for Higher spiritual tasks and to aid you to your spiritual potential.

Universe, Cosmos refers to both the physical world around us and the collective spiritual force.

Yin power, this is essentially the feminine aspect of all living things. In the East it is represented by the black aspect of the yin/yang symbol and stands for submission, negative, calm, deep, low energy.

Yang power, this is essentially the male aspect of all living things. In the East it is represented by the white aspect of the yin/yang symbol and indicates, dominance, positive, aggressive, shallow, energy.

Chapter One

CELEBRATING THE FEMALE

"In passing, also, I would like to say that the first time Adam had a chance he laid the blame on a woman." —Nancy Astor (British Politician)

There are many ancient and modern myths about the creation of the first females on Earth. Eve was created from Adam's rib as a submissive mate and companion. However, she was later blamed for the downfall of all humanity when she ate the forbidden fruit in the Garden of Eden. Always I believe, a very unfair male judgement. After all, if Adam was the boss and had free-will, why did he also succumb to the serpent's lure?

Instead, we have always admired Lilith who was supposedly Adam's first companion and lover. Lilith would not be suppressed or dominated by Adam and even though she was beautiful and intelligent, he asked God to take her away and give him a more submissive wife.

In the East, there is the fable of the yin and yang. A circle divided into male and female aspects, once united and complementary and powerful.

When the circle was divided, yin and yang lost compatibility with one another and divided their power into less than half.

There is also the beautiful story of the first twin flames creation, where the yin and yang were united in one ball of light, then willfully separated, and have since spend centuries on a special love quest, trying to find their unique other half, as they are now so lonely and unfulfilled.

The Goddess Isis from Ancient Egypt has channelled to us many messages of female power. Here is one which we felt explained female strengths.

"You are unique, you are special, you are females! You have divine qualities within you of unconditional love, empathy, compassion, healing abilities, kindness and caring. Many of you can see the future, can create wondrous works of art and music. You act instinctively with divine qualities of gentleness and tolerance. You are the peace makers, the life - bringers and the future of humanity. Revel in your feminine power and always use it wisely from both the heart and the head!

Ascended Master, Mother/Lady Mary who in one incarnation was the Mother of Jesus Christ, has also mentioned in many channellings the privileges of being female. She appears surrounded by a rose pink aura and the fragrant perfume of roses of attar.

"Why do you speak of yourselves as only females, only women! This is a debasing of your true nature and abilities. Do you not realise that the great Creator, God, Jehovah, Spirit is a combination of both sexes! You have a divine journey ahead of you, great lessons to learn that can only be learnt in female form. Without the female, Earth would perish. Is she not known as Gaia or Mother Earth. Do you not also speak of Mother Nature? Respect your sex, your gender, for it is God given, God blessed and a Divine Gift. Adonai."

Kwan Yin is the Chinese Goddess of healing and Compassion. She is often surrounded with an aqua blue aura of light. She has also spoken of the special role of females.

" Women have special healing skills that often males do not possess. They have emotions of empathy and understanding, compassion and unconditional loving, that males often battle with. They are the nurses, the healers, the carers, the mothers, daughters, sisters and friends who aid so many people. They often do this without payment, without thanks and often give so generously, that they neglect their own well being. They are angels in human form!"

A special channelling from Luna the Goddess of the Moon, explains why spirits incarnates as females.

" Each time before incarnating to Earth, you must decide which sex you will take on as an outer covering, male or female? Sometimes you choose one and the next time, the other, female or male. It can be an exciting decision!

For in each time period one gender normally has certain opportunities open to it for lessons and events to occur. For instance, if you decide to incarnate as a male in the fifteenth century in Europe, you could become a sailor and explore the world with Columbus, explore scientific principles with Leonardo De Vinci, be a Lord with much money and power or a peasant with a family and a living to earn from the soil. A male may choose to learn lessons of adventure, power, lust, love, responsibility and wise administration.

Being born a female in that century however, you will have fewer options, usually marriage or to enter a nunnery. Not so much scope, but still valuable lessons to be learnt and limited experiences to add to your soul's collection! A female may choose to learn lessons of patience, tolerance, submission, compassion, love and kindness.

How fortunate you are all now, to have incarnated into the 21st Century on Earth where so many females have the opportunity to experience out lives, so very similar to men. To choose marriage, love, professions, hobbies, power and education. To also have the religious tolerance in many countries to follow the faith of your choice, not what others demand of you!

But do remember dear friends, that it is a game, an illusion you are playing out. You are on one level a 21st century female, but on a higher level you are an angel, a divine spark of the godhead playing at being a human female. Never fully forget who you truly are, for you are the Divine in human form!"

Inspiring words, aren't they, from wonderful female role models. Now that we fully realise the power of the female, let us examine the three stages of the feminine wisdom and power.

Chapter Two

PERSEPHONE, DEMETER, HECATE

"Each of us takes on three roles in our life, each different, each rewarding!"

The life of women can be sorted into three very visible stages, youth, middle age and elderly. Each has very special responsibilities, attributes and spiritual meaning. The first stage is that of babyhood until marriage and this is known traditionally, as the time of Persephone. From marriage to the more wise, mature stage is known as the time of Demeter and the third part of life as the elder, is known as the time of Hecate. These could also be termed - the girl, the woman, the crone.

Shall we examine the role of Persephone, the youthful girl, first?

PERSEPHONE

Persephone is known as the spring maiden. The feminine stage of purity, innocence, naivete, energy, vigour and inquiring wisdom. The purity of the youthful maiden has often created magical myths, such as the innocent maiden's ability to call in unicorns and ride them safely. They can also easily contact the Elemental worlds of the Devas and fairies.

The most unblemished and chaste maidens were chosen as temple priestesses in ancient times, for their purity and ability to speak with the angels and spirits and for prophecy. The ancients believed falsely, that once a young woman lost her virginity, that her psychic powers were greatly diminished.

Persephone from the ancient Greek legends was a beautiful and innocent young maiden, the daughter of Demeter a Goddess and Immortal. She was playing with the daughters of other Immortals, picking gorgeous, unearthly flowers when she spied an irresistible bloom with one hundred stems of fragrant blossoms. She reached for the strange flower and the earth opened as a chasm, below her feet.

Hades the God of the Underworld, fell in love with her instantly and rode forward in his golden chariot, seized the reluctant maiden and took her to his underground world. The only two Immortals to hear her startled cries were Hecate the wise elder and Helios. Hecate advised her mother Demeter to accept the situation, as Zeus the father of the Gods had aided Hades in his covert act and that he and Hades were powerful beings that could not easily be outwitted.

Demeter refused to allow the grains to grow in the field, for they were of her dominion. She demanded the return of her beloved daughter or threatened famine for the people of the Earth. Finally it was agreed upon, that Persephone would return to the surface 4 months each year as Spring.

Persephone therefore represents new growth, pure motives and innocence. All young women show these very special traits before they are burdened with the responsibilities of marriage, children, career and house management. Today of course, the modern young woman can often choose higher education, carve a significant vocation for herself in the workforce, compete actively in sports, explore her sexuality and generally choose the life she wants, not what others impose on her!

This is fortunately an era, when many young women can create the life they want. Many do not have to be dominated by males, subservient to their families or religions and society. This is indeed, a time of great personal freedom for many young women. We realise of course, that some young women in more rigid, traditional and restrictive societies may still find limited freedom, but even these are rapidly changing, sexist barriers are falling and women are finding their true inner power!

We often think of the Spartan "thigh flashers" of two thousand years ago, who had equality with the men of Sparta. They danced exuberantly, loved who they wished and raised the children, often independently of their warrior men. They would enjoy living in the 21st century!

The suffragettes of the 19th and 20th centuries are to be praised for their often personally dangerous efforts to enable young women to enjoy the benefits of a more open, tolerant society that exists currently. They stood up to overwhelming opposition, to their cries for female rights and many were imprisoned, abused and sometimes died, for their just cause.

The women liberationists of the 1970's, are also to be blessed for their contributions to women's rights and equality at this time. They had to often prove publicly, their resolution and stand up to ridicule and bias, to ensure higher wages and better working conditions for all women. Many of these forgotten suffragettes and liberationists were young Persephones, feminine, girlish, but full of youthful vigour and energy for their very important life missions.

Now the starseeds and love children/crystal/indigo/generation x, young women, (born since 1969) are ready to take up the spiritual and psychic causes of the female power in the 21st century.

Who are the Starseeds?

The starseeds are young men and women who are experiencing life on Earth after directly incarnating from an off world planet where they have lived many lifetimes. These off world planets are usually in the Pleiades cluster. These young people often display characteristics very different to older generations.

Here are some of the typical characteristics of a Starseed or Pleiadian, they are:

1. A relaxed and easy going personality.
2. Strong environmental beliefs.
3. A strong interest in high tech gadgets.
4. Well developed personal psychic and spiritual gifts, including, clairvoyance (the ability to see spirit), clairaudience (the ability to hear spirit), ESP and Telepathy etc.
5. Lack of personal stamina. (You feel tired easily.)
6. Poor organisational skills. (Schedules don’t appeal!)
7. A dislike of meat, artificial ingredients, man made fibres and highly processed foods. (You like the natural approach to life.)
8. A keen interest in the New Age movement.
9. A dislike of cruelty to other people and animals.
10. A natural tendency to suffer from stress related illnesses, such as headaches and muscle tension.
11. A dislike of time keeping and you have poor punctuality skills. (You’re always running late for appointments!)
12. A very keen interest in highly creative activities, such as music, art, painting, drawing, sculpture and writing.
13. A natural dislike of structure and repetition within Your life.
14. The ability to easily accept new technology that makes life easier and more interesting for yourself, e.g. mobile telephones, computers and the Internet.
15. A dislike of conventional work and standard work practices, e.g. jobs with little variation and lack of personal self expression.
16. A lack of interest in money and a carefree attitude towards how You spend, what You have.
17. A dislike of wars.
18. You naturally respect the opposite gender/sex.
19. A tendency to drift towards illegal drugs, alcohol, tobacco and other forms of stimuli.
20. You treat your partner as an equal. This is particularly true within personal relationships and close friendships.
21. A tendency to develop bouts of depression or other forms of mental illnesses, including schizophrenia.
22. You easily forget important calendar dates, such as family and friends birthdays, mother and fathers day, anniversaries etc.
23. You don't distinguish greatly, between gender roles. (He’ll change the baby and let her put out the garbage!)
24. You have little interest and attachment to personal possessions and physical items.
25. You have powerful and highly active, major, secondary and minor chakras throughout the physical body. This is especially true with the orange pelvis, green heart and purple brow/third eye chakras.
26. You may have a high susceptibility to eating disorders, including anorexia and bulimia.
27. You like to barter or exchange items with other Starseeds, keeping cash transactions to a minimum.
28. When You are stressed, You tend to pass your personal responsibilities onto other people. This can include parents, partner, friends, an employer or landlord.
29. You strongly value personal freedom and dislike following a conformist lifestyle.
30. You give dress, etiquette and social skills, a low priority. (You like to dress and act in a casual manner).
31. You readily accept the fact that U.F.O’s, E.T’s (extra terrestrials), Angels, Ascended Masters and a Universal Creator or God exists.
32. You tend to easily feel "hard done by" by life and other people, when you don't get what you want. (You like to have Your personal needs met quickly).
33. You have a highly sensitive nature and are easily hurt by other’s criticism.
34. Even with issues and activities that You have a personal interested in, You normally, only have a limited amount of time, energy and enthusiasm for them. (You easily move onto other activities that interest You).
35. You feel a strong unity with all living life forms.
36. You may have a strong feelings that you have lived on Earth or other planets before!
37. You do not like to commit Yourself to standard social expectations, e.g. You easily move from one job/career choice to another, once it becomes routine and boring.


Typical physical Starseed characteristics include:

1. Large eyes, (especially true with Starseed females).
2. Broad smile, (especially true with Starseed females).
3. Soft facial features.
4. Physical height can either be slim and tall or short and lightly boned. Orions however, are often rounded.
5. Many female Starseeds tend to have smaller busts and narrower hip measurements, in comparison to earlier generations.

Does this sound like any Persephones that you know?

Many older people are perplexed at the attitude and life styles of the young starseeds, as they do not conform to society's expectations. They have a relaxed and unstructured role in society and do not often strive for material success or advocate war and intolerance. These young starseeds however, have incarnated for a completely different reason than their parents and grandparents. Material success and power is not their goal, but Unity and unconditional love is!

Young starseed women want peace, equality, tolerance and love in their life. This is what they have experienced on their off world planets such as Alanna in the Pleiades. This is what they are used to and this is the gift they bring to the Earth culture. Female power and growth of the inner spirit can assure that these goals are met.

Each young starseed Persephone woman or girl, before incarnating to Earth, decides voluntarily her gender, status in society (rich or poor), creative talents, psychic gifts, mother, father, sisters, brothers, friends etc all part of her soul group. She chooses the experiences that she will have in this lifetime, the adventures, the loves, the disappointments, the lessons and the pain. Note we emphasize that she picks her life highlights (good or bad), not someone else, no avenging God, no nasty spirits, just her!

She may choose to repay karma in this lifetime to those who have helped or harmed her in the past. Karma can be described as a reaction to an action. You hit someone, they hit you back, if not in this lifetime - in the next! Similarly, help someone in a past life and they have the opportunity to help you in this current lifetime.

Persephone may also choose a Life Plan and World Plan for this incarnation. You all have two plans that you incarnate with, firmly implanted within you. One is to use the things that you are most talented to do, for your own life’s work. This is called your Life Plan. You may wish to be a teacher, a doctor, a carer, a counsellor, an astronaut, an artist, a musician or any other vocation that fulfills and inspires you.

The other, is your World Plan and this involves your contribution to help humanity. It may be the same or an offshoot of your life plan, such as a professional musician who gives free concerts for charities. Or it may be, that your professional work is as a nurse, but, you also love to sing, so you entertain the elderly for free, at the weekends. As you begin to do what you are truly meant to do, other opportunities will open up for you, to expand your gifts and talents.

Look for how Spirit has already attempted to nudge you. Look for the divine coincidences or synchronicity, that try to lead you gently, along a certain pathway in life. Look at the opportunities offered to you. Take chances, that irresistibly call to you, to fulfil your life’s dream. Deep in your heart, you know what makes you happy and fulfilled - find ways now, to achieve that in your life! And never, ever use the old excuse that you are just a female and can't do it. Use your female power now!

We truly believe that all young women should be encouraged by their parents, friends, boyfriends and teachers to reach their full potential in this lifetime. If all loving parents encouraged their daughters from when they were very small, to "reach for the stars", we would find many more fulfilled young women in our society. Instead, many parents consciously and subconsciously send out messages, "that all a young woman can expect from life is marriage and kids and a dead end job!" They still view education as primarily for young men and that their daughters should look to their looks, rather than their brains. This is an extremely archaic and biased outlook.

If these are the messages that you are receiving from your family and friends, we urge you to look further. We encourage you to look at your skills and talents and decide for yourself, where they will lead you. Everyone should be creating the life style - they want, not just following a pattern set by previous generations. Remember that you have approximately eighty years to live your life, why damage your potential by acting willfully and negatively in your youth. Stop, think, plan and act towards achieving your true Life Goals.

We have met so many young women who have destroyed so much life potential by getting pregnant early or marrying or living with a male who stops their dreams abruptly. We realise that there is a strong biological and societal urge for young women to fall in love, marry and have children early in life, but if you are truly to use your angelic skills to help others and attain spiritual growth in your life, you need to take control and create a viable, exciting life for yourself now. You can always have children when you are older, with hopefully, your Twin Flame partner.

Female Unity could be so powerful a force in the Universe, if we only all pulled together on issues. We could end poverty, end sickness, create equality with men and create a wiser, more compassionate world. However, women often betray other women, act cattily to one another and undermine marriages and families, for the sake of their own baser passions.

We often have to counsel young women who are having affairs with older, married men. These women are thoroughly convinced that the man loves them dearly and is their true soul mate. Spirit has given us this very wise message for these young, confused Persephones.

"My child, why do you think that this man is the soul mate for you? Is he noble, honest and fair? No. he is betraying his loving wife and family, by lusting after you. He has to lie and deceive others to be with you. This is not noble, fair or honest.

This is not your Twin Flame, for your true higher partner would never meet you under such debased situations. This is the using of an older manipulative male of a young, innocent, emotional female. The relationship does you and him no credit and therefore can not be an evolved one.

Always put yourself in the other woman's shoes dear one. If she was betraying you with him, how would you feel, hurt, betrayed, in despair? Be honest, be brave, be noble and let him go, for you are worth much more than this!

One day it is hoped that women can willingly support one another and honour their marriages and young Persephones can say "no" to married men. Then women will indeed, be higher in power and spirit than males!"

Chapter Three

LIFE PLANS

"You are unique, you are special, you are females!"

How do you find out your true path in life, your Life and World Plans?
We suggest that you try this exercise.
Sit down and make a list of all your interests and positive character traits. Perhaps it will look like this -
I care for people
I am artistic
I like music
I am a good singer
I am proactive
I am relaxed with time tables
I like study
Now write down any possible work vocations in which these traits are valuable.
Your list may look like this -
Nurse
Art Therapist
Music Teacher

Try to volunteer or find part time work in these areas, until you find an occupation that you would like to pursue. Find out the educational requirements of this vocation and enroll in a school or college that teaches these specialized skills. Do not give up your dream because of other's advice, negative outlooks or self doubt. Try it! You can always change, if it is not right for you, but do give it a chance. If necessary, get a part time job to pay for expenses. Use your female power and connection with the Universe to make it come true.

Every day use this simple but powerful affirmation - "I am a powerful female. I choose my lifestyle and goals. The Universe works with me to fulfill my dreams!"

The Goddess Isis has given us this powerful encouraging message for young women.

"Make sensible choices about your living arrangements, associate with other like minded people who have your best interests at heart, plan your future and ask for spiritual help and guidance along the way. We want you to succeed and be happy!"

Included of course in the phrase, "like minded people", are of course the boy friends and lovers of the Persephones. The worst kind of lover is one like Hades, in the myth told earlier, who carries you away and only allows you limited freedom. Many young males unconsciously take command and expect their women to be subservient to them. This is nature's trap of continuing the species, but if you are to carve out a life for yourself, you need to be ready for this male dominance and work out strategies to successfully combat this, so that you have a satisfying love life, but also achieve your Life and World goals.

To understand the types of love situations that you shall encounter in your life, we must first look at the three types of romantic lovers. Soul mates, Kindred spirits and Twin flames.

Chapter Four

LOVE

"YOU HAVE A SOUL MATE! LEARN TO RISE IN LOVE"

Everyone would love to meet their ‘Soul Mate’ and live happily, ever after. This has been the basis of many a fairytale. The Prince and Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella and her Prince and Beauty and the Beast, are but a few.

‘Soul Mates’ has become a much, bandied around term. Every Hollywood star, seems to find her ‘Soul Mate’, every six months and then exchanges him, later for a new ‘Soul Mate’. Single women dream of meeting the perfect ‘Soul Mate’ partner, who is dashing, handsome and rich. While bored wives, dream of meeting a ‘’Soul Mate’’ who will understand them and be sensitive to their needs. What then does the term ‘’Soul Mate’, really mean?

A ‘Soul Mate’ is a person, (who you have written into your Life plan), who will help to encourage you, in your spiritual journey. You can have many ‘Soul Mate’s, for short or long periods, in your life, although a better term, would perhaps, be, ‘kindred spirits’. These people, may be of either sex and normally, they owe you some type of karma from past lives, (normally good karma). You helped them in a past life, in some way and now they, are happy to return the favour!

Of course, if you only have a mild interest in spiritual subjects, you will normally, only attract in another kindred spirit with a similar, mild interest. However, they might have similar interests in hobbies, entertainment or romance. As you progress in life and your interests change, you become more spiritually aware. If your partner does not change at the same rate, normally you leave them behind.

As you spiritually develop yourself, so more highly evolved ‘kindred spirits’ or more spiritual ‘Soul Mates’, come into your life. They may be teachers, friends or lovers. The role of a highly evolved ‘Soul Mate’, is to encourage you to develop yourself on every aspect, particularly the spiritual level. They do this willingly, without jealousy or bias.

When you are on a lower level of spiritual development, you will find, that you may have many kindred spirits or ‘Soul Mates’, come into your life, as most people only have a vague interest in spiritual matters. But, as your interest grows and you begin to sincerely live a spiritual life, the ‘Soul Mates’ become fewer, but more lasting. When you raise yourself, to a very high state, we believe there is usually only one person, that is truly your ’Higher Soul Mate’, at this level.

This ‘Higher Soul Mate’ or ‘Twin Flame’, has incarnated to work by your side on your Life Plan and World Plan. This may be, as a great friend, teacher or lover, or hopefully all three! Tony and I believe we are truly, ‘Twin Flames’. That we wrote this concept into our life plans, before we incarnated, but, would not be able to meet each other, before we had reached a certain spiritual level of development.

‘Higher Soul Mates are not always, physically your idealized mate! They are not usually, the rich, charismatic, handsome adventurer or latest movie star. By the time, you have reached a high state of spiritual development, hopefully, you have come to realise, that ‘beauty is only skin deep’ and that the most, spiritually beautiful people, are often very ordinary on the outside!

One of the tests, on your spiritual journey, is discovering the fact, that a diamond in its natural state, is often very colourless and ordinary looking! Subsequently, ‘Higher Soul Mates’ may be poor, average looking, a different race or religion or in a different age group to you. But, once you discover their true inner worth, they become inseparable to you! They are your other half on this planet!

Often, you have met these ‘Higher Soul Mates’, before in a past life, perhaps, as spiritual partners. The karma outstanding between you, if there is any, will always be positive, never negative. They are not here to give you a hard time - but to help uplift you!

Normally, ‘Higher Soul Mates’ or ‘Twin Flames’, will work on spiritual projects together, encouraging each other and complementing their skills. For instance, you may be a spiritual healer and your partner a naturopath. By using your skills holistically, you can aid your clients on many levels, physically and spiritually. Or you may be a spiritual teacher or counsellor and your partner, a wonderful administrator or researcher. By using your complementary skills, you increase your effectiveness as a individual and as a couple.

Your priorities, when you come together with a true ‘Higher Soul Mate’ or ‘Twin Flame’, will be different, to those you had, with former partners. This time around, the time honoured objectives, of bearing children, promotion in your work place and obtaining the best car and a home in a prestigious area, become secondary or disappear entirely! Your goals and objectives are primarily concerned with spiritual development. Your own and others.

You will instead, choose a home that is conducive to your work and to creating peace and calmness around you. You may decide, not to have children, so that you can more fully concentrate on your spiritual development. Or, if you do decide to have them, to raise them in an entirely different way, to the way you were raised! With spiritual, rather than material values!

Material success will be useful, but is no longer imperative. If it distracts you from your spiritual goal, you will often reduce it, until it fits your new life style! With your new spiritual ‘Higher Soul Mate’, you will live in a different, but fulfilling way, that makes sense to you both, if not to others! When you both feel contentment in your life and are actively pursuing your spiritual goals, there will be no need for either of you to find sexual relationships, outside your commitment.

You will be able to talk openly and deeply to one another, because you will not have to put on the usual male/female stereotypical behaviour. You will both work actively, to become balanced with your Yin (female) and Yang (male) natures. The male will become creative and more sensitive. The female more active and assertive. This enables you both, to explore new unopened worlds of experience. Neither sex has the control or power in the relationship. You work in unison not opposition.

How, then do you find your higher ‘Higher Soul Mate’? First, begin to perfect yourself spiritually. Find the true spiritual being within yourself. Develop this kinder, compassionate, unconditionally loving person. Learn to respect yourself and develop your teaching, healing, artistic or counseling skills. Look objectively, at the problems in your life with detachment. How would you advise someone else, to handle these problems?

Now use the same, sensible advice, yourself. Remember, you are Spirit in a physical body. The material things around you, do not truly matter, they are only teaching aids!

Then, look at the psychological and emotional blocks, in your life. What makes you unhappy? Change your perspective and life, so that, these blocks no longer affect you. Create pleasure and peace around you! Associate with similar minded, spiritual people who are positively and actively living spiritual lives.

When, you have developed a wonderful peaceful, contented, rewarding, positive life, for yourself, where you are actively helping others with your skills, ask the ‘Universe’, to send you, your ‘Higher Soul Mate’ to live with and work with, from the highest intent! Soon, the Universe will send the right person to you, but, you will have to be discerning enough, to recognise them!

Take your time, get to know them well. Observe, if they are truly living a spiritual life, as opposed to talking about living one. Then, allow love to naturally develop, between you. If this, is truly your ‘Soul Mate’, all will flow well, towards a spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically compatible relationship. Blessings in your search!

Remember in the past, you have fallen in love, this time you will both rise in love together!

Many Persephones do not meet their Twin Flame partner, until later in life, for first they must work through karmic situations and ties with old soul mates from past incarnations, but it is possible! This usually only occurs when the lover chosen is considered thoughtfully and time taken to truly know their character. Compatibility and similar goals are essential. If there are many arguments and continual discord in the relationship - this is not your Twin Flame partner.

Work on the situation, forgive your partner, learn from the experience, detach gently and move on. Do not rush into another romantic liaison, but instead use the time alone to develop yourself emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Remember "like attracts like!"

Chapter Five

Balance

"Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got." —Janis Joplin

It is important that young women find balance in their life. Your emotions, mental processes, physical body and spirituality should all have positive input and be balanced, to give you the opportunities to find your goals and perfect your dreams.

Controlling your emotions so that they benefit you, not lead you astray, is an important element for blossoming Persephones who want to take control of their lives. Allowing positive emotions to radiate outward and inward, will help you overcome many problems. Not giving into despair and sadness, is a lesson you can learn while young, that will benefit you all your life.

A healthy body and mind will also help you to achieve your Life Goals. Yet many young women either over eat or diet continually. Many starseeds are prone to anorexia and bulimia. They unconsciously recall memories of being in a lighter, smaller body frame on the Pleiades and unconsciously strive, to live like the Pleiadians who do not ingest heavy Earth food.

They must realise for better health, that they are in human form this lifetime and need a healthy, but heavier diet of grains, fruits and vegetables. And of course, treats like chocolate and cake, occasionally! Starving yourself, will not help you reach your life goals. You need lots of healthy energy to achieve your dreams!

The mind also needs nourishment, from healthy entertainment and study. Choose your movies, books, games etc wisely. Your spirit feeds on what goes into your mind and brain! Read and watch trash, Think trash!

We encourage every young woman to expand her horizons. It is a big, exciting world out there and while you are young, is the time to explore it. Travel to exotic places safely, live alone in different regions, learn to drive, join unusual activities and groups, explore new avenues which interest you. Too soon, you will be restricted with husbands and children, now is the time to make your mark on the world!

If you are serious about getting on in your vocation or the world in general, we suggest that you look critically at the image that you project to others. Does it fulfill their expectations? While we are all for individuality, most people unfortunately aren't! They expect their employees or students to be conservative, clean and modest. What you do in your free hours is your own concern, you can then be gothic or punk, but remember that the outside, often conservative world of employees, want you to represent their image. So play the game for the while. When you are the general manager, you can allow everyone to dress like they want!

It is also wise to learn general skills for home upkeep and car maintenance, you won't always have a mum or dad around to do the dirty tasks. Learn to change a light bulb and fuse, sew on a button, mend hems etc. oil and water your car and keep your tax and personal papers in order. Starseeds generally do not like doing these tasks, but it helps to make you independent and in control of your created life! Remember the Spice Girls and their Girl Power, this is what you need!

In the same way, if you have an active sex life, look seriously at contraception and health issues of sexually transmitted diseases (std's). Not a pleasant topic, but a vital one for the independent Persephone. Visit your doctor or women's health clinic for advice.

Many young women have poor speaking skills and are often shy before crowds of listeners. We encourage you to develop these skills in debating teams, speaking groups such as Toast Masters, and do not shy away from experiences of public speaking. Each time you express your views and opinions, you create greater confidence within yourself. If you have wonderful talents - let the world know about it!

A word of caution about materialism, money and credit. The billion dollar advertising world is geared to sell you every new invention possible, from the latest mobile phones to the hottest coffee maker. Somewhere in your life, you will need to sit down and decide whether you are going to give into all this advertising hype, or select only those material aspects that truly interest and inspire you.

If you commit heavily to mortgage payments, credit card repayments etc at an early age, you will find yourself trapped in mundane jobs that may not truly appeal to you, because of severe financial pressure. It is a realistic truth, that things wear out, the initial joy of the new gadget soon goes, but the repayments don't disappear! Think objectively and sensibly about your financial commitments. Don't allow them to rule your life!

Finally, we encourage every young woman to - upgrade their vision of the perfect lifestyle. Many Persephones settle for so much less, than they can reach. Instead of doing what everyone else does - going to the same entertainment venues, try something new. Go to the theatre, go to art galleries, go to concerts, visit unusual up-market places, restaurants etc. even if you only order a coffee. Don't settle for less than you can have. Refuse to believe in class levels and structures - and then they cease to exist. You are special and you can have more quality in your life!

Chapter Six

Working with Spirit

"Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead." —Louisa May Alcott

Persephones can learn to use their spiritual and psychic talents to help them in their life goals. Many of these young women are naturally psychic and have many easily awakened spiritual talents. Here are some ideas and exercises for success.

Meditation

Meditation is a conscious state of relaxation in which the mind is disengaged from it's usual worries and thoughts, the physical body becomes relaxed and the emotions are uplifted. During this meditative state the person can experience thoughts and sensations beyond their normal range of being.

Benefits Of Meditation

Meditation can help your body regain natural good health by lowering your blood pressure and relieving your body of stress and tension. It's powers have been used by doctors to fight cancer and relieve ulcers. It is a sedating agent and restorative for the mind, as problems can be put aside temporarily while meditating and often solutions to problems are obtained with greater insight while meditating.

Spiritual insights are often experienced while meditating. It is said, "That prayer is you talking to Spirit (God), while meditation is a chance for Spirit to speak back to you!"

Basic Meditation.

For novice meditators, we suggest that you sit quietly with eyes closed.

Begin with three deep breaths. Breathing out tension on the "out" breath and breathing in relaxation on the "in" breath.

Relax your entire body (imagine that you are floating in a bath of warm water).

Clear your mind of all thoughts. When a thought intrudes, merely push it to one side. If this is difficult to do at first, visualise a beautiful rose and keep your attention on it and nothing else. In time your mind will associate the thought of the rose, with your need to relax and meditation will become easier.

Your Angels

Everyone has two guardian angels who guide and protect you in each incarnation. Often they have been friends or relatives to you in past incarnations. You can learn to safely contact them for guidance, support and protection. The Abbotts have a free e lesson on their website for this process

Archangels

Amongst the Archangels such as Ariel, Uriel and Raphael is the supreme Protector Angel Michael who comes with a royal blue light. Call him in when needed for protection and safety.

Your Higher Self

The Higher Self is the angelic perfected part of you who can give you support, guidance and power. The Higher Self has often been referred to as the conscience. The Abbotts have a free e lesson on their website for this process of meeting your Higher Self.

Teacher Spirits

These are advanced beings who can help you with study, hobbies, health problems etc in your life. They usually only enter for a brief time.

The Ascended Masters

These are beings who have lived life on Earth and have spiritually ascended before or after death. They are loving and wise. These are beings such as Sananda, Jesus, Buddha, Isis, Mother Mary and Kwan Yin.

We encourage you to contact the Ascended Masters, Your Higher Self and all your angelic guides for higher wisdom and support. They can help you become strong, powerful, loving women!

Persephones can create a fulfilling life for themselves filled with caring lovers, spiritual growth, successful careers and happy events, but they must take the first steps to ensure that they create what they truly want. The Universe will help you, if you ask and state clearly your goals and intentions, but you must also make some genuine effort.

The Persephones can learn to work by themselves and in Unity with men to create a peaceful, caring world. They can do this with equality, feminine power and spirituality. Decide on your dreams today and begin working towards them.

We are sure that you will make it!

Chapter Seven

DEMETER
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." —Margaret Mead



The Demeters are women between the ages of thirty to late menopause. The married woman with growing children or the single, career woman who has found her power. These are not passive, submissive women, but strong, self confident, able women who are finding within their inner being the personal skills to make a better life for themselves, their families and communities and increase their spiritual growth.

Demeter in the Persephone legend, was a strong Immortal, the Goddess of the Harvest. When her beloved daughter was stolen, she didn't just sit back and grieve, but set out to get her back! She travelled, sought out knowledge and refused to back down, even when other greater and more powerful male Gods denied her access to Persephone.

She used her cunning to refuse to allow the grains to grow on Earth, for they responded to her special powers. No grains, no food, in those days! She blackmailed Zeus and Hades into returning her daughter to her, for four months of each year. Demeter was a strong, determined middle aged woman, who made a difference. And so can you!

Now that you have left the insecurities and naivete of youth behind, you are beginning to not only understand your own personality and mind, but also begin to understand others. This is a time of growing empathy within women. As many young women tend to the needs of their own children and husbands, they often feel within themselves more respect and understanding of their own parent's behaviour and mind sets.

They understand that often their parents' supposedly domineering and strict behaviour was not done out of spite towards them, but out of concern and love. Guidelines had to be set and rules laid down for the entire family's well being. Younger parents now find that they are the ones saying "no" to their own children and having to punish and set regulations within the household. At thirty-three, it is now possible to understand why you weren't allowed at fourteen, to stay out all night with your boyfriend!

You can often see the sacrifices that your parents had to make, to ensure that you had a good home life. Or if your parents have made huge mistakes in their own personal lives - divorce, adultery, selfishness, anger, addictions, violence, etc, you are now able to view their behaviour more objectively and hopefully forgive them. At the same time, you can learn from their mistakes and vow never to repeat them yourself!

Because you have by now, usually experienced at least one or many love affairs, you have a better understanding of the male psyche. You understand that men and women do not always think alike, on every issue. Men are usually very pro-active (they make things happen) while many women allow things to happen to them.

Men are often able to easily put their emotions aside, unlike many women. The male is frequently able to compartmentalize the major events and people in his life. This is why he can be the devoted family man, have a mistress on the side, work without allowing emotions to flood into his business world and enjoy and lose himself in sports, while the females fall in emotional heaps around him. He only thinks of one thing at a time and doesn't usually expend huge amounts of emotions on it.

Of course, there are now many starseed males flooding onto planet Earth and they thankfully, are more emotional, softer natured and think in a more androgenous (female/male) way. But they still have many more male characteristics, than female. Understanding them, but not judging them, is a task that the Demeter woman can now accomplish for fulfilling personal romantic relationships and family harmony.

It is important at this stage in life, that the Demeter woman becomes aware of her own inner resources and strengths. Often your confidence can be increased, as you willingly take on experiences in the world, outside the family home. Many women return to college or university, find part time or full time employment, join groups of interest, become interested in politics or charitable causes and generally widen their horizons.

As young children become less dependent, many women often begin to explore their own inner dreams and talents. This is often the time of art and music classes, writing novels and short stories, developing counselling techniques and exploring the inner self through spiritual and psychic development. We believe that everyone incarnates with a special talent to help others and the planet and to bring you great personal joy. This Demeter stage is often the time to find this talent and bring it to the world!

Unfortunately, this is also often the time, when many marriages begin to break up and the Demeter woman must face divorce and resettlement of home and work. We sympathize with those of you who are going through this turbulent time, for it is not easy. Traditionally this should be the stage in life, when you begin to reap the rewards of all your youthful labour, not have to begin again. However, we ask you not to despair, for every woman that we have encountered who has faced this life event courageously, has inevitably developed a happier, more fulfilling life for herself!

This amazing channelled message came from Ascended Master Mary and explains the situation that many divorced or separated people are currently going through. We are sure that it will help you.

"Please remember dear ones, that between lives on the higher planes, you choose who will be your major love partners in the next life. They agree willingly to take on those roles in order to help you overcome certain emotional blocks and increase your personal knowledge. So often before life, you will decide to marry a soul mate male who will be your husband or boyfriend for say seven years, then move on, once all that can be learnt from the relationship is thoroughly learnt. You may for instance have to learn patience and forgiveness and he to learn gentleness and compassion.

Then after a period of reflection and inner growth, another male will come into your life to teach you new exciting lessons about relationships. Remember you volunteered for this and so did they. It's just that you've forgotten the larger plan. It may astonish you to know dear ones, that often a marriage or relationship is almost solely, to see how you handle the break-up! Whether you do it with nobility and kindness or hatred and anger.

Anger and hate tie you in to inevitable new bouts in future incarnations with this soul mate, while forgiveness and gentleness usually frees you from their influence for ever! So do not be too upset my dears, for if this relationship has ended - he is not your true twin flame partner! Forgive him, be kind and generous, take time out to discover the true you, work on yourself to perfect yourself and get on with your true vocation and life mission. In time, when you are ready for him, your twin flame partner will arrive! Adonai Mary"

Sociologists predict that the average person will have three marriages or long term partnerships in their lives. They will marry their first partner in their early twenties, then divorce and remarry in their late thirties, later divorcing and remarrying for the third time, in their fifties or sixties.

Anyone who has been through an unpleasant divorce or separation knows of the pain and negativity that is generally stirred up, as the divorce proceeds. Great bitterness can be generated through a nasty divorce and remains with the two participants, often throughout their entire lives. This hatred, guilt and bitterness, can eventually result in life threatening diseases in either one or both parties, such as cancer, diabetes, heart disease and liver and gall bladder problems. Think about it - don’t we talk of someone being "broken hearted" or a situation being as "bitter as gall"?

Apart from the physical aspect of disease, many people experience emotional and mental problems, following a divorce or separation, resulting in mental breakdowns, depression or traumatic and phobic behavior.

This is why divorce and multiple relationships, are so prevalent, at this time, in our society. It is a chance to balance old scores and hopefully end all relationships, with love and forgiveness. When you hold on to bitterness, after a relationship has ended painfully, you are continuing the karmic pattern. Inevitably, you will draw that person to you, in a future life, where you will have to replay the scenario, until this time, you forgive and release them fully!

Patterning or repeating the same behaviour over and over, is a key ingredient to the karmic process. The same beings are often involved, although they will often change sex and roles. One couple, that came to us for counseling, revealed under hypnosis, that the wife had murdered the husband in one incarnation, in 14th century England, by pushing him over a cliff and he had murdered her, in a different past lifetime, in 17th century Italy, by smothering her!

These lives had been over a seven hundred year span, but the negative patterning behaviour had been repeated many times. In this current lifetime, they decided to approach their marital problems in a more rational way, through counselling and mediation. Whether, they stayed together or divorced, was not the main issue, but, that they peacefully resolve their difficulties and broke the negative patterning. This would free them from tragic involvement with each other, in future lives.

While, friends can be helpful and supportive in our lives, it is often the enemy as the ex partner or his new partner who tests us and shows us our true natures. Are we really as forgiving, patient and loving as we imagine? Our enemies, often show us that there is definitely room for improvement!

Sometimes, members of our soul group, will purposefully take on this role, to help our emotional and spiritual growth. The greatest enemies on Earth, can be the greatest of friends on the higher dimensions! A good reason to always forgive your enemies - why carry the negative karma on to the next lifetime?

Female unity could be so powerful a force in the Universe, if we only all pulled together on issues. We could end wars, cure sickness, create equality with men and create a wiser, more compassionate world. However women often betray other women, refuse them advancement and undermine marriages and families, for the sake of their own baser motives.

We often have to counsel depressed women who are having affairs with other married men. These women are thoroughly convinced that the man loves them dearly and is their true soul mate. Spirit has given us this very wise message for these confused Demeters.

Q. "HOW DOES SPIRIT VIEW ADULTERY?

A. "Usually with sadness, rather than condemnation. Not because of the physical act which may or not be unloving, but because trust and faith are broken with their legal partner. If it is discovered, it often causes emotional pain within the relationship and an ending to family life.

This is a time in your society, for many people to end up karma, with many beings who they have previously loved in past lives, as wives, husbands or lovers. That is why many people have many partners in their lives and the divorce rate is so high! This is a perfect example, of spirit using a negative situation for spiritual positivity!

We would naturally, prefer you to meet your Twin Flame and live a contented life with your partner, for the rest of your life. But, so few of you marry your Twin Flames, that it is inevitable that many people, leave their partners and seek for that elusive being.

Unfortunately, most of you are looking for the wrong type of person in the wrong place! To return to your original question - yes, adultery is wrong. If your marriage is so dysfunctional, that you need to find someone else as a sexual partner, you need to look at your motives and your marriage. Are you just being immature and greedy or is it time to lovingly and gently end the marriage, so that your partner also, can find their Twin Flame?"

Chapter Eight

THERE IS A PURPOSE TO YOU BEING HERE! LIFE PLANS, WORLD PLANS

"The Universe works with me to fulfill my dreams!"

Before incarnating into a new life on Earth, the scenario goes something like this - You meet with your Angelic Guides and Higher beings and review your previous lives, particularly the most recent past life. This is all done in an amicable, helpful way. There are no great trials or condemnation of your former activities on Earth. No one judges you.

But, wishing to better yourself spiritually, you may be a little harsh on your own faults and misdemeanors! Knowing that you have sown negative karma, you normally decide to come back and repay any individual person you have hurt in the past, by giving them positive, helpful actions.

You scrutinize your character and may decide to work on aspects which seem unloving, in your next life. You may also, have a particular interest which you wish to continue following. For instance, if you incarnated in Emeline Pankhurst's era in England, late 19th century, to bring in female emancipation then, you may decide to come back in that nation and again, as a staunch female liberationist, to try to achieve the same aim, one hundred years later!

All Demeters choose a Life Plan and World Plan for this incarnation. You all have two plans that you incarnate with, firmly implanted within your DNA and lightbody (astral body). One is to use the thing that you are most talented to do, for your own life’s work. This is called your Life Plan. You may wish to be a teacher, a doctor, a carer, a counsellor, an astronaut, an artist, a musician or any other vocation that fulfills and inspires you.

You may have already achieved this aim and now want to do more with your special vocation or you may have chosen the wrong job for yourself and want now to make a positive change of direction. Many Demeters willingly change life styles and vocations at this time.

The other, is your World Plan and this involves your contribution to help humanity. It may be the same or an offshoot of your life plan, such as a professional health worker who gives free check ups and health services for underprivileged people. Or it may be, that your professional work is as a teacher, but, you also love to play the piano, so you entertain the elderly for free, at the weekends. As you begin to do what you are truly meant to do, other opportunities will open up for you, to expand your gifts and talents.

Look for how Spirit has already attempted to nudge you. Look for the divine coincidences or synchronicity, that try to lead you gently, along a certain pathway in life. Look at the opportunities offered to you. Take chances, that irresistibly call to you, to fulfil your life’s dream. Deep in your heart, you know what makes you happy and fulfilled - find ways now, to achieve that in your life! And never, ever use the old excuse that you are just a female and can't do it. Use your female power now!

We truly believe that all women should be encouraged by their partners, friends and family to reach their full potential in this lifetime. If all loving husbands and partners encouraged their wives from when they were first married to "reach for the stars", we would find many more fulfilled women in our society.

Instead, many male partners consciously and subconsciously send out messages "that all a woman can expect from life is marriage and kids and a dead end job!" They still view education and power in the workforce as primarily for older men and that their wives should look to their beauty rather than their brains. This is an extremely archaic, chauvinistic outlook.

If these are the messages that you are receiving from your partner, family and friends, we urge you to look further, despite their discouragement. We encourage you to look at your skills and talents and decide for yourself where they will lead you. Everyone should be creating the life style - they want, not just following a pattern set by previous generations. Remember you have approximately another fifty years to live your life, why damage your potential by allowing others to determine or limit your life goals. Stop, think, plan and act towards achieving your true Life Goals.

LIFE PLANS

How do you find out your true path in life, your Life and World Plans?
We suggest that you try this exercise.
Sit down and make a list of all your interests and positive character traits. Perhaps it will look like this -
Care for people, particularly the elderly
Artistic
Like music
Proactive
Good with time tables
Like to study
Now write down any possible work vocations in which these traits are valuable.
Your list may look like this -
Geriatrics Nurse
Art Therapist
Music Teacher
Therapist
Counsellor

Try to volunteer or find part time work in these areas, until you find an occupation that you would like to pursue. Find out the educational requirements of this vocation and enroll in a school or college which teaches these specialized skills. Do not give up through other's biased advice, negative outlooks or self doubt. Try it, you can always change if it is not right for you, but do give it a chance. If necessary get a part time job to pay for expenses. Use your female power and connection with the Universe to make it come true.

World Plans are often pursued in equality with your Twin Flame partner or people of a like mind. Look for opportunities to act out your own special skills. Perhaps you're great at organizing, then offer this skill to charities and causes. Perhaps you’re a marvellous cook, again offer this skill to help others. Maybe you can form an action committee to help the needy or a choral group to raise the spirits of the elderly or home bound. Look at your own talents and offer them to others to lighten their burdens. You will be aptly rewarded by practicing unconditional love and generosity.

Write down your main wish for humanity. It may be something like "Ending world hunger" or "Bringing better health to the planet". Then think about how you can help in a small way towards helping this cause.

You may like to state to the Universe. " Divine Spirit, I have a deep personal wish to end starvation on this planet. I wish to actively work towards this goal. Please direct me in the right way, where my talents may be appreciated and where I can do the most good. I wish to always work from the Highest Intent to end world starvation."

Why not sit down and meditate now, on your wish and ask a Higher power to help you achieve it!

Then look for opportunities to do this. If a notice in your local paper is asking for volunteers to help with world hunger problems, ring up and inquire. Begin the process and Spirit will send many spiritual coincidences to help you fulfill your request.

Every day use this simple but powerful affirmation - "I am a powerful female. I choose my lifestyle and goals. The Universe works with me to fulfill my dreams!"


Chapter Nine

Health Issues in the Middle years

"Something which we think is impossible now is not impossible in another decade." — Constance Baker Motley, (First Black Woman in the U.S. to become a Federal Judge)

Many Demeters begin to suffer chronic aches and diseases in their middle years. A healthy body and inquiring, open mind is needed to help with these issues. Surprisingly, you even pick your illnesses before birth, in order to teach you valuable lessons. Alternate practitioners may help you, in a way that is more natural for your body than traditional medicines.

Spirit has given us some valuable health tips for the Demeters who are being affected by illness at this stage of life.

"All sickness begins in the lightbody. When you suffer pain in your physical body it is usually due to an emotional wound in the same area in your starry body. Each day, try to visualise your body healthy and all pain relieved. Work on your problems and emotional blocks and many of your illnesses will be relieved or disappear completely!"

Mother Mary has also given us this short channelling on how to promote better health and slow down the aging process.

"Blessings to you all, Dear Ones, I Am Mother Mary.

Do you feel a quickening of the Earth? Do you feel her going into rapture? For, dear friends, this is what is happening and you who have a symbiotic relationship with the Earth, have similar effects throughout your body. You too are quickening, you too, are going into rapture, what you call ascension. You feel the changes within you. Some are pleasant, some are not, but they are all lifting you up to the true being you are meant to be.

In your scientific terms, your DNA is being rearranged. All those DNA strands that have been dormant for many, hundreds of centuries are now being realigned. And the little glands throughout your body that have been redundant for so long, the pineal gland, the pituitary gland and the medulla oblongata, your reptilian brain - all are beginning to function again, as you become what you term Lightbody. And with this comes many great gifts to you. I hope that you do see them as gifts, for you will find soon that you are able to perform what you would call magic!

You will find that your hands will heal others, that things you think of will manifest before you, that you will be able to do what you consider great, wondrous deeds. And with this, of course, comes the great responsibility of always using them for the highest, of using them to aid humanity, to raise them up to the Light and to the true beings they all can be and to raise yourselves to your full potential, as spiritual beings
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With this, also comes a gift you may not be aware of. I am sure by now you are aware that time is not linear. Time is only a measurement of energy, used upon the planet Earth. And you in many ways are holographic images that are sent by your Higher Self, down to experience life on Earth in a very, what seems to you, solid form. And you have, through the countless centuries, thought that you cannot master time, nor have you had mastery over your bodies, but dear friends, as time collapses upon itself and changes, you will find that you will be able to manipulate time. As you see it as an energy, not as a barrier, you will be able to perform great deeds within that constructive energy.

And as you realise that your bodies can be mastered consciously, not just subconsciously, but consciously, you will be able to reverse and stop the aging process and in many times be able to go backward, if you like, physically to a younger, healthier state within yourself. I am not telling you this so that you use this process out of vanity, for Spirit does not care, what your exterior is, whether you are young, or old, or lovely, or ugly. Spirit loves your internal Light source that is always God-orientated. But we do wish you to be healthy and if it is your wish to stop the process of aging and if it is your wish to return to a healthier state within yourself, to have a fuller control of your bodily functions, to rid yourself of disease, or any mental turmoil, this is certainly the opportunity for you to do so.

You are all aware that the body renews itself regularly. Every cell in your body is regularly replaced. In the past the body and mind has believed that with the aging process, any disease within your body would become worse as you aged and therefore you have manifested within your body, such illnesses as arthritis. Now that you realise that you are gaining conscious control of your body functions, you will find that you are able to eliminate such diseases within your body. You will be able to command the cells to renew themselves in a healthy way, rather than in a destructive way.

Just as a child you had to learn to walk, it took some time. You had to crawl first, then you stumbled for a long time before you could walk steadily, so this process does not come to you overnight. Again, like all great gifts, it must be practiced. You must look at it as a very valuable gift, but you can all learn to control this gift.

I would advise you, those that are interested, to sit for ten to 15 minutes each day and visualise your body becoming, as you would desire it to become. If you wish it to become thinner, visualise it so. If you wish it to become stronger, or healthier, visualise it so. Go from the top of your head to your toes on your feet, visualising each part becoming healthier and stronger, free of disease. And you will begin to manifest, what you are thinking of, and this is what you have done all along, but it has been at a slow rate.

Now that time, in many ways, is speeding up and as your vibrations become stronger, as your abilities become stronger, you can control the state of your body, to a large degree. And so, if it is your wish to be healthier, stronger and to stop the aging process, visualise this strongly, within these 10 to 15 minutes each day and, dear friends, you will soon find results.

Of course, if you are to exercise and eat the right foods, this will help, because in many ways your bodies are becoming super-sensitized to what is taken into them. You will need to look at your foods - are they healthy, are they life-giving? I am sure that many of you here now, are vegetarians and you realise that you can make a healthier diet for yourself, free of the flesh of other animals. If you look also, at the huge range of herbs, of flower extracts, of different aloes, elixirs that come from different parts of your Earth, whether they come from the East, or the West, or the North, or the South, you will find that within many of the native cultures, herbs, grains, fruits that will help you also.

Your body can become, if you like, a testing machine for these. If you find certain herbs that make you feel healthier and stronger, continue to take it. If your body rejects it in any way, then leave off the use of it.

You yourself, are becoming so super-sensitive, that soon, merely by thought and touch, you will decide what is suitable for your body. Remember, you are like a statue, a statue that is carved by your body, by your mind, by your soul, by indeed, at times, karmic influences, in that you may have inherited a body that in some way is a repayment of good, or evil deeds done formerly. But now you have control, even over that.

As the Light of Grace comes in, all karmic retribution is finally dissolved.

Dear Ones, use this gift wisely. Make yourselves healthy and fit and strong, so that you do your spiritual work to its utmost. I bless you all.

Mother Mary."


Blocks and Problems

If the blocks and problems in your body are not looked at and worked through at this stage of your life, you will inevitably take them through to old age with you, where they will grow much worse. If you are unforgiving and have issues around the heart region and chakra, you are liable to manifest heart problems in the physical body. Or if you have power problems and blocks, you may draw to you stomach ulcers and intestinal and lower back pain.

Learning to accept and forgive, are wonderful traits that all Demeters can aspire to. When you suddenly think of someone who has hurt you in the past, immediately send them a forgiving, loving, pink light from your heart centre. In time you will begin to completely forgive them and release the old pain within yourself, preventing illness in that region. Often the person who has caused the initial pain, begins to treat you better. Remember they are here to learn too!

Forgiveness will relieve a great burden on your heart, mind and shoulders and also normally cuts any future karmic ties to this person. So everyone wins!

Chapter Ten

Spiritual Growth and the Demeters
"All women are angelic within, with angels' powers!"

Now is the time, that many women in their middle years, have the time to fully explore their spirituality. This is the time to attend lectures on unusual subjects, study esoteric courses, visit clairvoyants and develop your own special psychic skills. We firmly believe that everyone is psychically gifted and all the spiritual and psychic arts can be learnt. However do find a very good teacher, who helps you re-remember your psychic talents in a safe, non threatening environment.

Always use psychic protection, as you would not walk across a busy highway blindfolded, the same with spiritual exercises! Here is a safe protective exercise to aid you.

Psychic Protection

Sit quietly and imagine around yourself a golden/white auric egg of higher vibration. You are sitting in the centre of it. Now ask your Guardian angels to protect you, only allowing positive energies through the egg. Imagine within the auric egg, a symbol of personal spirituality to you. It may be a cross, ankh, six pointed star or crescent or other symbol. This will keep you safe from contact with negative spirits at all times. If you ever want more powerful protection call on Archangel Michael and his Protector angels. They give immediate help.

Benefits Of Meditation

Meditation can help your body regain natural good health by lowering your blood pressure and relieving your body of stress and tension. It's powers have been used by doctors to fight cancer and relieve ulcers. It is a sedating agent and restorative for the mind, as problems can be put aside temporarily while meditating and often solutions to problems are obtained with greater insight while meditating.

Spiritual insights are often experienced while meditating. It is said, "That prayer is you talking to Spirit (God), while meditation is a chance for Spirit to speak back to you!"

Guides for meditating/simple protection

Room temperature - comfortable, your body temperature may drop during meditation.
Noise levels - as quiet as possible. Music may be conducive to relaxing into meditation.
Sweet smelling - perfumed oils may help to create a relaxed mood. Try Sandalwood, lavender or patchouli.
Calming colours such as blues, greens or neutral. Not vibrant reds, oranges as these stimulate.
Gems such as crystals and amethysts can be helpful for meditating.
Light levels - you should not have to meditate in the dark, semi light is fine.
Posture- sitting comfortably is fine. Lying down is not overly recommended as you may fall asleep!
Imagination is a special gift to be encouraged during meditation.
It is always sensible to protect yourself spiritually and psychically by imagining yourself in a gold auric egg of divine light before meditating.

Basic Meditation.

For novice meditators, we suggest that you sit quietly with eyes closed.
Begin with three deep breaths. Breathing out tension on the "out" breath and breathing in relaxation on the "in" breath.
Relax your entire body (imagine that you are floating in a bath of warm water).
Clear your mind of all thoughts. When a thought intrudes, merely push it to one side. If this is difficult to do at first, visualise a beautiful, calm lake and keep your attention on it and nothing else. In time your mind will associate the thought of the still lake, with your need to relax and meditation will become easier.
You may now be asking, What are the most important factors for spiritual growth?

A. Self responsibility, awareness, detachment and unconditional love.

1. Self Responsibility

In other words, it is up to you! No priest, minister, friend or lover can do the work for you. You have to decide to begin your spiritual journey. You have to take the responsibility for your own progress. You can decide to progress only a very little in this lifetime and come back one hundred times more, to learn a little more in each lifetime or you can try to learn it all in this lifetime. The choice is yours!

You need to not only want to do it, but begin to do it. Read everything you can get your hands on, go to seminars, join meditation groups, talk with other New Age people, explore, explore, explore! Don’t give up, when things become stagnant or difficult. Treat your journey as a special assignment with you the benefactor! And ask for spiritual help from your Guides and appropriate Masters.

2. Awareness

Your Guides are constantly trying to reach you and help you with your spiritual development. Look for coincidences (synchronicity) when they are trying to tell you something - seeing the same object or word over and over again. Don’t dismiss things, as just chance! If you run into a friend three times in the one day, stop and sit and talk to him. There may be something important he has to tell you.

Look at patterns in your life. Change the negative ones that bring you pain. Look at your home, work, relationships, attitudes, with fresh, awareness. What can be changed for your spiritual highest and in the most loving method? Learn to contact your guides directly, so that you can benefit from actually conversing with them. Be adventurous, be alert and be aware!

3. Detachment

This does not mean coldness or aloofness. It means being able to see yourself and your actions and mental and emotional attitudes, in an objective way. Not giving in, to over emotionalism. Not hating, feeling jealous, envious, frightened, angry or alternatively, overly excited and irrational. Without some detachment, you are at the mercies of every emotional wind that blows your way!

Detachment is taking charge of your emotions, so that they work for you, not against you. If you can believe that you are a spiritual being, using your body and personality, to learn lessons. That you are not Jane or John Jones, but an angelic being, using Jane’s life to appear human, than you can learn to push aside your ego, with the help of detachment, and see your behaviour objectively. You can then control your life and spiritual progress.

4. Unconditional Love


Unconditional love is not just an abstract emotion, it is something that should be lived. You can’t say you have unconditional love and then say that you hate Jews or Hindus or Asians or women. There are no exceptions to unconditional love. You see all humans as angelic beings, striving to find spiritual enlightenment and growth, under very difficult conditions and you love all of them for trying! Not just some of them! You don’t just love the Gandhi's and Mother Theresa's, you also love the Hitler's. Some have found unconditional love, others haven’t. You may not like the deeds of a Hitler or mass murderer, but you can forgive the fallen angel who has committed them.

How do you know, that you haven’t committed similar acts in a past life? Wouldn’t you like forgiveness for your negative acts? Live unconditional love from the moment you wake up each morning, til the moment you place your head on your pillow at night. All are your brothers and sisters. All are worthy of your respect. All deserve your unconditional love.

Q. What is the greatest barrier to my spiritual development?

A. Your ego

This is what stops you believing in spiritual matters. This is what stops you raising up from the third dimension to the fourth and higher. The ego does not like any change! The Ego likes things as they are. If you are sick, the ego doesn’t care, it would prefer you to remain sick, rather than get better and change your life. Even if that change is for your better good.

By ego, we do not mean egotistical - being obnoxiously proud of your self. We mean the inner voice that rules your subconscious and makes you behave in ways you do not like, that makes you doubt yourself. For instance, if you try to give up smoking cigarettes, the ego will try to convince you that you are foolish to try. It will use every trick available to it - making you irritable, angry, tired, depressed etc just to make you go back to smoking. It doesn’t like change! And of course, it does the same when you try to spiritually progress.

How then, do you get your ego to work with you not against you?

Try these ideas

Imagine the ego as a naughty boy or girl - reduce it to size and make it comical.

Be aware that the ego will try to sabotage your plans for spiritual growth. Recognise its attempts to sabotage you and outwit it! Laugh at it, out think it! If it beats you once, try again. Keep on your spiritual journey. Ask ego to help you, not hinder you. As it gradually becomes used to the change and you don’t allow it to dominate you any more, it will fall into place and be tolerant of your growth. Be confident that you are a powerful angelic being in physical form - don’t allow ego to tell you otherwise.

Personal Guides

Your personal guides are angelic beings that assist you with problems in life. You usually have two guides, one male and one female advising you on these issues. They are often deceased relatives, friends or people you have known in past lives that owe you positive karma, but have not incarnated on to Earth at this time.

Meditation to meet Personal Guides

1. Relax and meditate for fifteen minutes.
2. Protect yourself by imagining a white/gold protective light completely around yourself in a circle, like an auric egg and place within it a symbol of spirituality.
3. Mentally, ask your Angelic Guides to help you make stronger contact with them today and in the future.
4. Imagine yourself in a beautiful garden with bright, sparkling, golden lights in the air. In the garden is a bubbling stream and wonderfully, coloured bushes, flowers and trees. A great feeling of serenity and calmness surrounds you. You find a comfortable bench in the garden and sit down to relax and meditate for five minutes.
5. Now send out a thought to your Guides, to come forward, into the garden and towards you. Relax and wait patiently. One or two Beings may come.
6. Visualise or feel them walking slowly towards you. Feel the love and serenity that they emanate.
If you are not comfortable with their vibration - send them away! Some of you may smell a wonderful perfume coming from them. Allow them to come and stand before you.
7. Look into the faces of your Angelic Guides and mentally welcome them. Listen clairaudiently, with your inner ears, for a reply. Take your time.
8. Ask your Guides for their names and listen for a mental reply. If the reply is too soft or unclear, ask the Guides to speak louder and more clearly.
9. Hold your Guides’ hands and feel their embrace. Do not hurry the experience. Enjoy it!
10. Talk to your Guides about whatever you like. Listen for their reply. Take time, there is no need to hurry.
11. Ask your Guides to make their presence known more often to you and for further contact to occur more quickly and clearly.
12. Thank your Guides for coming and slowly let them depart.
13. Leave the garden and return to your physical consciousness and body.

We have many spiritual exercises for free on our website and ten lessons for spiritual development, also at no cost. We encourage you to learn to develop your special skills of Angelic contact, Higher Self contact, Astral travelling and Healing abilities. It is now time that the Demeters truly came into their strength!


Chapter Eleven

HECATE

"Every older woman should be cherished!"

The Goddess Hecate was a beautiful, older woman who was confident and adviser to Zeus, Hades, Demeter and Persephone. She aided Demeter on her search for her stolen daughter Persephone and gave wise counsel, at all times. In later times, she has been debased as the "witch or crone with the cauldron", but her original image is the mature, wise beauty.

She represents the wise, elder woman who has seen much of life and has benefited from her experience and willingly shares it with others. She had the ability to see the Past, Present and Future and is often depicted with the symbol of the crossroads. She helped the newly deceased pass over safely and gently, to the Heavenly realms.

Hecates are often post menopausal women whose children have left home and whose career is established or nearing an end. They have maturity, wisdom, confidence and time on their side! This is the stage of true female spirit and strength!

Unfortunately in our current society, the Hecates are often overlooked. Many women of this age group consider themselves, almost "invisible" to other people and their mature talents, experience and wisdom is often not utilized by their community. Illness, widowhood, problems with children and grandchildren may rob the Hecates of energy and good health. Yet their minds are ready to finally begin their life missions.

We recently heard of an 82 year old woman in Australia who gained a doctorate and many other older women often accomplish great things. Grandma Moses did not begin painting until she was in her seventies, then had a very successful art career in her eighties until her death. This is the time to sculpt that project, get out the oils and water colours, begin to write that novel you've always wanted to do and create the life style you want!

Many older women also discover a deepened spirituality within themselves, that they now have the time and resources to fully explore. We have found in our own day classes many older, intelligent Hecates who are very keen to discover the meaning of life. Our internet courses tend to attract the older woman who wishes to study unusual New Age subjects such as Atlantis, Chakra Balancing, Spirit Contact or Healing techniques etc all in the comfort of her own home. Age is certainly no barrier to the New Age!

Here is a special channelling from Mother Mary concerning this very issue.

"Dear Ones this is Mother Mary,
I heard several of you say recently, that you feel that you are too old to be involved in the New Age movement. Too old to change your traditional religious beliefs, though you admit that they no longer satisfy you. You feel strangely attracted to the study of wider esoteric philosophies than you have previously. Where once, you would have laughed at the notion of spiritual mediums, tarot readings and astrology, you are now having second thoughts. Perhaps there is something in it after all?

Shall I explain to you something that you may not have understood about your purpose here on Earth - you are all on a Special Spiritual Quest, a Divine Journey towards perfecting yourself spiritually - until the day you die! Your quest doesn't finish on the day you retire from the workplace - in fact, this may be when it actually begins! For now you have the time to fully discover who you are, where you are going and why you are here.

Finally you are having some freedom from raising children, working for a living, buying homes and involved in community activities. Now you have time for yourself and your own spiritual growth! Now the truly interesting part of your life commences….

Many Light Workers (those spiritual people born before 1969) have astrologically, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto in retrograde in their birth charts. These are deeply esoteric influences that do not come forward into your life until you are middle aged. Spirit knows that you will have very active years when you are young, socializing, raising families, carving out careers etc. Definitely not the time to spend on spiritual philosophy, in a serious way!

So these influences of soul searching, removing inner negative blocks, searching out new ideas and philosophies have been purposely kept until you have the mental capacity, interest and time to spend discovering them, in your later years.

As an additional bonus, you now have much life experience of sadness, loss, heartache, success and resolutions. You are "life streetwise". You may have also found that conventional religions do not answer all your deep personal questions.

For instance, Dear Ones, a lovely woman that I know of, Trudy, recently lost her husband to cancer. Ron had been a wonderful lover and companion to her, for over thirty years. He had been a very kind man who loved children and their greatest regret was that they could not have children of their own. So after years of futile trying for their own babies, they adopted three children, two girls and a boy from a third world country ravaged with war. The children, now young adults, were shattered at their adopted father's death. They, like Trudy, wanted to know why such a loving, kind man had died at only 60 years of age with such a terrible disease. It didn't seem right.

They had belonged to a traditional church for many years, but found the sermons repetitiously boring and the clergy man cold and indifferent to their suffering. They asked him, why this tragic illness and death had occurred and all he could tell them in rather a curt manner was "It's not up to us, to question God's will!" Their religious faith was not helping them at this sad time.

Trudy had heard of a well known spiritual medium from a close friend and decided to arrange a visit to this person, making sure that the woman did not know of her circumstances. The woman spoke kindly to her and within a few minutes had contacted her husband Ron. He told her (through the medium) that he was now well and happy and that he would always watch over her, but she and the children were to get on with their lives and be happy also!

Trudy wanted to know why, since he had been such a kind, caring man, why had he died in such a terrible way and at such a relatively young age?

The medium listened to Ron speak for several minutes and then explained to Trudy that

Ron in a past life had been a young, seventeen year old soldier in Europe and had helped to destroy an enemy's small township through fire and pillage. Many of the inhabitants had been killed, especially a number of small children. This episode had affected him badly. All his life, he had nightmares of the murdered children and he purposely never married and had his own children, as a type of atonement for his crime.

When he passed over to the afterlife, he decided to return to Earth in a future incarnation and help the young souls who he had killed in war. He deliberately chose not to have children, but instead, be led to helping orphaned children in the next lifetime. Trudy as a now angelic being, chose to incarnate at the same time and help him as wife and future adopted mother to the children he would take in and lovingly parent, if his kind heart took him in that direction. This is why she had purposely chosen to be barren in this lifetime, to help Ron!

He also chose to die in a painful way, to atone for the deaths of his young victims. He willingly chose this and now felt absolved from the previous deaths. His current three adopted children were the children who had died in the village fire, in the previous lifetime. His negative karma to them was now finished. He had repaid the spiritual debt and in future lives and should they incarnate again in a family group, they would only have only positive karmic ties between them all!

Now that Trudy understood why his death had occurred, the immediate love they had had for their adopted children and why she had not been able to have children in this current lifetime, she felt relieved of a great deal of her grief and burden. It all finally made sense.

Ron would have liked to be able to approach Trudy himself in spirit form and make these explanations, but of course she had not developed her channelling, psychic skills, so he had to approach her through a trained medium. Trudy did in time, (through attending psychic development classes) learn to psychically 'feel' Ron around her and hear his occasional words of comfort. She now offers her spare time to a charity which works with war displaced children. Trudy still visits a traditional church for meditation and prayers, but has found a whole new world of spiritually active people in New Age centres and churches who share her curiosity and wonder of the paranormal world.

So Dear Ones, do not think that you are too old to discover your life purposes - what we would call your Life and World plans, the real reasons you are here on Earth, in this present incarnation. Most people after retirement will live thirty years of comparative good health. You have many special talents and skills that you have developed during your lifetime. You can spend this retirement time in stagnation, wondering what life is all about, but doing nothing about it or begin to discover why you are here and what further good you can do to help the Earth and humanity. I know what I would choose ………….
Blessings to you all,"
Mother Mary

As a Hecate in later life, you have a final opportunity to repay old karma and dissolve karmic ties which bind you to others. Karma can be good or bad, positive or negative. The ties to those you love and treat you well, are usually very positive, but you may also have ties to others who wish you ill or sap your emotional and physical energy. You do not wish these ties to carry on to future incarnations and cause you unhappiness.

But you do not wish to cut the painful karmic ties abruptly, as this often causes severe discomfort, however you can learn to dissolve them gently with unconditional love. Here is how you can achieve this.

CUTTING THE PSYCHIC HEART BONDS


Close your eyes and breathe three deep breaths. Relax.
Mentally surround yourself in a golden oval of light.
Begin to slowly relax your head. If a muscle feels tight, tighten it further, then relax it.
Begin to slowly relax your neck.
Begin to slowly relax your shoulders.
Begin to slowly relax your chest. Breathe slower and lighter.
Begin to slowly relax your back. If a muscle feels tight, tighten it further, then relax it.
Begin to slowly relax your upper arms.
Begin to slowly relax your elbows.
Begin to slowly relax your hands and fingers.
Begin to slowly relax your stomach and lower back. If a muscle feels tight, tighten it further, then relax it.
Begin to slowly relax your thighs and pelvis.
Begin to slowly relax your upper legs.
Begin to slowly relax your knees and lower legs.
Begin to slowly relax your feet and toes.
Now allow all the stored energy in your body to drain out from your fingers and toes into space. Visualise it as a green energized light.
Relax.
Still your mind.

Imagine that you are in a quiet garden. A past love enters the garden and comes to sit opposite you. Do not feel anger or betrayal, send him/her unconditional love. Think of him/her as a teacher not an enemy. Forgive him/her for any pain they have caused you. Now look at your chest to your heart chakra and you may see a smoky etheric chord going out from your chest to you ex love’s chest.

Now imagine a golden pair of scissors in your hand and gentle sever the chord. Releasing your partner forever. Now do not leave your end of the chord dangling there let it be rejoined with your heart chakra centre and send golden light pulsing through it. You feel better already! You know that it is a benevolent Universe that is trying to help you in your physical and spiritual journey. Ask the Universe to help you to release your old partner on all levels.

Send him/her love and let him/her go from the garden. Now relax. Maintain this calmness for ten minutes.

Then -
Begin to slowly tighten your head.
Begin to slowly tighten your neck.
Begin to slowly tighten your shoulders.
Begin to slowly tighten your chest.
Begin to slowly tighten your back.
Begin to slowly tighten your upper arms.
Begin to slowly tighten your elbows.
Begin to slowly tighten your hands and fingers.
Begin to slowly tighten your stomach and lower back.
Begin to slowly tighten your thighs and pelvis.
Begin to slowly tighten your upper legs.
Begin to tighten your knees and lower legs.
Begin to tighten your feet and toes.
Take three deep breaths and open your eyes.
Do not get up quickly! Or you may feel dizzy.

Practice this exercise daily until you become easily relaxed.


If you were to meet every single person, in every single life, that you have had on this Earth and on other places and other planets and other spheres, you would be spending your whole life, having karmic people come in and there would be far too many. And so it has been decided, that in this lifetime, that the act of Grace will come upon humankind and that merely by thinking and sending love to those individuals of which you are conscious or unconscious of having negative karmic links, that you will be able finally to sever those karmic ties with love and Light.

So I urge you all, to do that - to send out from you a wonderful beam of loving Grace, ask to be forgiven and ask that those people finally end their karmic ties with you Grace is often seen as a beautiful, violet coloured ray of light.

Chapter Twelve

Higher Self and Hecate

"Behave like a Master and you will become a Master!"

If you have lived your life with unconditional love, compassion and highest intent, you will have become a very advanced, spiritually motivated, wise elder woman. A true Hecate. If not, it is not too late to truly become the Divine and human person you were meant to be. An angel in human form. You can do this by contacting and becoming your Higher Self.

HIGHER SELF

Your Higher Self is an angelic Life Force which is represented on the many Higher Chakric Layers or Levels. It is an infinite Consciousness that is connected to you, by an invisible silver chord. It is the greater, more perfected part of you that does not incarnate. Contacting and developing a relationship with your Higher Self is one of the most important stages in your spiritual and psychic development

Higher Self is the expanded part of you, to whom you voluntarily send back information, about your own life experiences, from every incarnation that you live. This also includes sending back emotional responses, such as love, joy, pain or fear. This helps to add to Higher Self’s collective knowledge of life, as a Human Being. Higher Self holds all the knowledge and wisdom that you have accumulated from your many past lives. It can be both friend and teacher to you.

Your Higher Self prompts you to be loving, compassionate, joyful and harmonious to other beings and the planet Gaia. It has been called your intuition or conscience.

Higher Self has access to all the Higher dimensions and those of the Akashic Records (Universal records or library) and therefore is able to supply you with much Higher information, not normally available to you, on the third dimension.

Your Higher Self loves and understands you unconditionally and does not judge your actions, as it is intimately aware of your reasoning behind those actions. However, it does want you to become the best you can!

Higher Self may contact you through hunches, coincidences, synchronicity, meditation, dreams, channellings and feelings. As you increase your awareness and communication with Higher Self, you will experience increasing insights, revelations and demonstrations of Higher Self’s knowledge and presence. This may include finding out your purpose for being on Earth and other in-depth spiritual revelations.

Your aim in Life is to merge with Higher Self gradually, until you become Higher Self (a Master). By doing so, you will have direct loving and wise control of ALL aspects of your life and be then eligible, to attain Higher Master powers.

Most people initially contact Higher Self on the MAGENTA spiritual Level which is directly above the crown chakra, as this is the level most similar to 3rd dimensional Earth.

EXERCISE 1.
TO CONTACT HIGHER SELF

You might like to pre-record this exercise and replay it as you meditate.

1. Psychically protect yourself thoroughly in a golden auric egg of light and call in your personal Spirit Guides and any Higher beings that you feel secure with, to help you with this exercise.

2. Then allow your consciousness to rise up the silver chord from your Crown Chakra and enter a magenta coloured room on the Magenta level. Pause for several minutes. Allow the magenta light to flow through your astral body. It is a purple/red colour.

3. Ask for your Higher Self to come forward. See and feel a beautiful Being approaching you, emanating unconditional love and warmth. Pause several minutes.

4. Look into the face of your Higher Self, hold Higher Self’s hands or feel its embrace, for several minutes.

5. Greet Higher Self mentally and hear his/her melodious voice speak to you. Pause several minutes. You may ask guidance of your Higher Self on any issue, personal or spiritual. Allow five minutes.

A Higher Self will NEVER command or condemn you. If this occurs send the being away, immediately. This is not Higher self behaviour!

5. When you are comfortable with Higher Self’s energy, allow it to gently merge with you. Feel yourself expanding with love, harmony and knowledge. This merging may be a deep embrace or an entering of Higher Self into your crown chakra. Feel this for several minutes.

At first you may only be able to maintain this contact for short periods of a few minutes, but in time, extend it to many hours.

7. Ask Higher Self to guide you with problems in your life and to make stronger, quicker and more frequent contact with you.
8. When your visit is finished, thank Higher Self.
9. Detach from each other gently.
10. Leave the magenta room and level and travel down the silver chord to return to your crown chakra.
11. Ground yourself thoroughly.
Record your degree of contact with Higher Self and think of ways of increasing the effect and contact.

Merging with Higher Self is particularly useful for public speaking, job interviews, teaching, healing and counselling, as it gives you added confidence, verbal proficiency, additional knowledge and insights when needed. At first, bring in Higher Self a few minutes before the speaking engagement, in private surroundings. In time, you will feel Higher Self merge with you almost instantly, when needed.

Higher Self can also be merged with and worked with on an artistic level. Painters, writers and musicians often unconsciously link into Higher Self, when engaged in artistic endeavors. You can begin to use this consciously, by protecting yourself before attempting your painting or musical composition and linking with Higher Self and ask that your artistic abilities be increased. When you are finished, remember to ground yourself.

You can become more like your Higher Self and gradually become him/her. How? By remembering how Higher Self felt, spoke and behaved with you. Begin to act like Higher Self.

Become more unconditionally loving to everyone. Be kind and be wise. Behave like a Master and you will become a Master!

Chapter Thirteen
Hecate and Death
"Heaven is a reward for a life well lived!"

All Hecates should have the mature wisdom within them, to understand that Death is a natural process that should not be frightening or deeply resented. It is not an ending, but the continuance of life in another form.

Many people believe that they have a ‘soul’ or ‘spirit’, somewhere deep inside them, part of their personality make up, just as they have a body and brain. This ‘soul’ stirs occasionally, when you hear beautiful music, listen to inspiring words, see a newborn baby smile or fall in love. But, otherwise it is fairly redundant.

Nothing could be further from the truth! You are the Soul. You are the spirit. Because you’ve chosen to experience life in the physical form of a human being, you’ve entered into this covering of flesh and bones, but that it all it is - a covering.

When you go and buy a new overcoat, you don’t become the overcoat. You remain a person wearing an overcoat. When you incarnate into a new baby’s body at birth, you live your life within the growing human body to help you fulfil certain tasks, but you are not the body! Similarly, when the old coat is worn out, you discard it, but the human body still lives on. When the human body is worn out at death, you discard it, but, the soul, your true spirit, continues to live on.

In death you are freed from pain and suffering that is part of the human physical condition. In death you regain your natural being as a magnificent angel. And you do not sit around on a cloud, playing a harp and worshipping God. On the contrary from all accounts, angels live a very busy and fulfilling supernatural existence.

They study subjects that they are interested in - imagine being taught music by Chopin or Elvis, or painting by Michelangelo. They oversee life on other planets and help and counsel many people in the 3rd dimension. Once a person has lived their set period of time on Earth and achieved the goals they set out to learn, they return happily to their true spiritual home. Earth is just a training school for them, a tough one at times, but just a temporary visiting place.

Everyone has a set period for being here on Earth, whether it is one day, three years, twenty years or one hundred years. You decide the time, before you incarnate down! You may go out in an accident, war, through illness or old age - but the time was preset before you came here! And more amazingly, your parents, friends etc all agreed to it. You've all just forgotten the plan!

Naturally if you feel that you have lost a dear one to death, you grieve because the one you loved is no longer in physical form - but remember, they decided to exit then and they have returned Home to heaven, to live a spectacularly happy life. You are mourning, but they are full of joy! Can you not see then, that your mourning and grief, is a little inappropriate?

Here is a spirit channeling that we received, from a small boy who died several years ago.

"I would like to tell my mother and father that I am very happy here. I have many playmates and family to look after me. Grandmother is here and she showed me around, when I left my body in the hospital. I wasn't a bit afraid, it was great! It is so fantastic here and lots to do! I can think of anything and I have it! I can travel anywhere, without a plane or car! I sometimes go down to see my mother and father and they are so sad, that it upsets me. Please, tell them to be happy. I am. I will see them both one day and we will be together, but they have lots to do now. Tell them to remember me, but to remember me happy, not sad!"

We can learn much from the loved one who has left us. We can be inspired by their life and character or we can sink into depression and erase all the wonderful memories we had of them, by grieving constantly. Your loved one, wants you to be happy, to get over your depression and to live for a special purpose. Value the years, weeks or days you had with them, not the years you think you missed. Don't spoil their triumphant journey home, with your tears.

Both Tony and I, (Robyn) have spoken to many dear spirits who have passed over after death, to the Higher Levels and planes of consciousness, the Heavenly Realms. They have all had similar experiences of being greeted and comforted by loving friends and relatives who have previously passed over. Often a special Archangel, Azriel comes to gently guide them through the death process. Azriel is a very special Archangel who compassionately and gently aids many people on Death, from human to angelic form, to the higher realms. He is not frightening at all but an angel of pure light and love.

They then often rise up above their now spirit vacated bodies, the silver chord to their old bodies is broken and enter into a white tunnel of light and at the end emerge into a lovely, heavenly place of warmth, love and light, freed from the discomfort and heaviness of their old physical Earth bodies.

Many of the deceased spirits have spoken about the wonders of these Higher realms - the beautiful flowers and trees, the peace, the kindness and the love. They are gently reintroduced to their surroundings which feel very familiar, for they have had many eons there between incarnations on Earth and other planets. They are reunited with loved ones and have the ability to create their own comfortable surroundings. If they want to live in a replica of their old Earth home, they can do so or if they want to live in marbled halls, they can also do so, as their psychic abilities are much more advanced than on Earth!

They can study advanced subjects such as music, art, sacred geometry in the Akashic Halls of Learning under the tutoring of famous musicians and philosophers or develop their higher spiritual talents with help from angelic teachers. There is more to do in Heaven than sitting quietly and praying!

Often those who have passed suddenly without warning, such as in an accident or while very mentally confused, spend time in a type of angelic hospital, where they are tended by compassionate helpers and loved ones. Sometimes they sleep for a long while, to rid themselves of the last traces of their uncomfortable Earth illnesses and confusion. Then they are gently awaken, to be helped by their angelic carers to rediscover the delights of Heaven.

We have never heard of a negative report of the Heavenly Realms. Every spirit we have spoken to, is happy, well balanced and joyful to be home again. Of course they have great sympathy for those loved ones that they have left behind on Earth and often try to visit them and reassure them that they are still "alive" and happy. But unfortunately, many grieving relatives and friends do not "see" them or "hear" them, for clairvoyant (clear seeing) and clairaudient (clear hearing) talents are not encouraged to be learnt, in this current Earth society.

We shall finish this chapter with a loving quote from the Higher realms - "There is an old saying - When a child is born on Earth, we rejoice and the Angels cry. When a soul returns to Heaven, we cry and the Angels rejoice!"

Chapter Fourteen
Reincarnation
"And is it not a joyful experience, my dear one?"

We have mentioned briefly reincarnation and karma in our previous channellings and writings, and you may be asking - Is reincarnation true? Do we have many lifetimes or only one?

We believe that you have many lifetimes, opportunities to perfect yourself and grow in knowledge, love and compassion. For one lifetime for many, would just not be long enough and every time we incarnate we do so with a clean slate, a new chance to get it right! Tony and I remember many of our past lives, some together, some not. We have been poor, rich, male, female, spiritual, atheist and more. All new adventures for growth. As a hypnotherapist for many years, I have regressed hypnotically hundreds of people who remembered earlier lives. So it is a very common experience.

Surprisingly, the early Christian churches believed in reincarnation and the philosophy was fully accepted up until the 4th century, when it was outvoted by only one vote, at a meeting of senior clergy at Constantinople. And of course millions of people in the East accept the belief as fact.

But do not just take our word for it, we encourage you to read the words of the Masters on this intriguing subject.

This is an extract from channelled book Omni

"Principle 4 : parable 2

The Master journeyed through a region of orchards and vineyards and rested at the home of a generous woman. She invited the people of the area to come and speak with the Master.

And an old man came to Him saying, "I am afraid of death." And the Master said, "Why? You have died many times before, in many lifetimes and yet you are still here, healthy and strong. It is more likely that you fear life, for it is on Earth that you have burdens, in the heavenly realms you have none. There is but Divine joy there. The heavenly realms are not a place where you sit as angels and play harps or rest eternally.

At first when you go there after you have died, you may find that you need to rest. You will be taken care of by angelic beings. But then you will remember who you are and you will regain your glorious form, your glorious mind. And then you will decide what you will do there. It may be to study, to teach, to heal, to help. There will be many choices open to you. Think of it, my dear one, that you have voluntarily come to Earth for a short time, yet your true home is in the heavenly realms. Would you not rejoice, on returning to your home and seeing all those that have gone on before you?

Fear not death, dear one, you will soon be with your beloved Divine Power and Creator and then again, in time, you will be given the choice to return to a physical planet, a physical world, in a physical body, if you so wish."

"It will not be long, before you are back again," The Master said with a laugh." Do not throw away the joy of returning home, do not fear death, for it is a release to a higher way of living and loving."

Then a smart young girl said to Him "But then how do we escape from the wheel of reincarnation? How do we get to remain in the heavenly realms?" And the Master said "That is a good question. There will come a time when your visits to Earth and to other similar planets, begin to become tedious, when you have learnt almost all the lessons that you can learn from these places. Your soul will cry out for higher knowledge and once you have learnt all that you can spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally from these planets, you will then desire to move on to a higher dimension. And you will devote your life to doing so.

Then when you reach that time on the heavenly realms between incarnations and when you have looked at all that you have learnt and when others have guided you, you will decide then it is time to raise yourself up, to leave those planets of the third and fourth dimensions, such as Earth and perhaps, to incarnate on those that are higher of the fifth and sixth dimensions.

So you see dear one, it is an endless road of progression, till once more you are reunited with the Divine Spirit and then you will rest for a while in the darkness, in the peace. And then perhaps, you will come forward again and experience what it is like to be on the lower dimensions. For does not all life go in a circle? You are born, you live, you die, you are born, you live, you die, it is endless. And so it is incarnating to Earth, raising yourself up, going up to the higher dimensions and levels and then coming down again. And is it not a joyful experience, my dear one?" The Master.

We have, over the years that we have worked as channellers, received many channellings on reincarnation from The Ascended Masters and other spirits. Here is a channelling from Master Kuthumi on this fascinating subject.

"My friends, why is it more implausible that you are born many times or only once. The same procedure takes place each time. The angel spirit enters the body of the newly created foetus, coming and going until it is familiar with the heavy earthly body. Just before birth it finally enters the human baby's body and the veil of amnesia comes down over the mind of the young child. It forgets who it has previously been and it's intended missions on Earth, what it is meant to learn, who it will help and what karmic ties apply to it and others.

The baby forgets that it is an angel full of wisdom and light and instead sees and feels only what a young infant would experience. During it's lifetime, if it has developed an inquiring mind, he/she may explore the psychic side of it's nature and rediscover who it has been in previous lifetimes and why it is here. At death the body decays, but the spirit is set free to return once again to Heaven. After rest, discussion, study and planning, the angelic soul may choose to return once again to Earth, to experience a new life with all it's unlimited possibilities. This is what reincarnation is about - opportunities, growth, experience all eventually culminating in enlightenment. " Kuthumi.

We have investigated reincarnation over the years and have read much on the subject. It is interesting to note that almost all facts discovered while in a hypnotic trance about previous incarnations, when checked turn out to be historically correct. Even supposed wrong information, such as a person remembering a crypt in an ancient church in which they once worshipped in a past incarnation and no longer appears to be there, is later unearthed and rediscovered. The past life memory was correct!

Here is another channelled message from Andromeda Ra concerning reincarnation, which may explain it more clearly.

"Many people, find the idea of reincarnation, difficult to accept. If the process can be done once - it can be done many times. You don’t buy one overcoat in your life, you change them regularly, as you physically outgrow them or just want a change. The soul does exactly the same - when your body becomes old and difficult to use, it gently discards the body and seeks a new, healthy one to inhabit.

When the soul is tired of being a white man, it may choose, next time, to be a black female, so that the experience does not become repetitive. Can you imagine only buying plain, gray coats all your life, when you can have any hue or design you fancy?"

It would be wonderful, if the soul could experience enough situations, experiences and human entanglements in one lifetime, so that the trip to this third dimension, was only a "one off". But, unfortunately, there is such a wide diversity of human experience to investigate, that it usually becomes necessary for the soul to return many times, in many forms, male, female, poor, rich, healthy, ill etc.

The list is endless and diverse. Each lifetime is unique and rewarding. To return time and time again, as a healthy, wealthy king with no troubles and vices, would make for a very boring series of lives and after the first few experiences, very little new information would be gathered. But, to be a lame beggar in Baghdad in one life and a glamorous movie star in Hollywood, in another, helps to show you the true diversity of the human experience.

Shakespeare wrote that ‘all the world’s a stage and that men and woman are only players’. This is an excellent description of the roles in each life, that we willingly take on. We choose the stage set - our birthplace, the other actors - our parents and the role that we will take on - rich, white girl or poor African boy. But, we wouldn’t like to replay the same scenes over and over again, as it would soon become boring, so each life we choose a new stage set and new roles to play out.

Many human beings, have short lives of perhaps only a few weeks or years, in which they experience very little, while others have lives of one hundred years plus. You may choose to have several short lives, (to just dip your toe into the cold water), than to have one long life (where you fully take the plunge). The choice ultimately is yours. We have met people, who have incarnated to Earth over 200 times and others who have only incarnated several times. Blessings, Andromeda Ra."

Under hypnosis, many people can tap into these past lives and are often astonished at the details they remember, from lives experienced thousands of years ago. Some people, through hypnotic regression, can be brought mentally, to the time before each incarnation, when they plan the life they will experience. Always, they have choice as to parents, place, social conditions, colour, race, religion or gender. Different choices for different lessons. So, I’m afraid if you don’t like the circumstances of your birth, you have only yourself to blame, you chose it!

Chapter Fifteen
Hecate and Love

"The day will come when men will recognize woman as his peer, not only at the fireside, but in councils of the nation. Then, and not until then, will there be the perfect comradeship, the ideal union between the sexes that shall result in the highest development of the race." —Susan B. Anthony, suffragette.

Sociologists now believe that a current trend in relationships and marriage show that many people will have three major partners in their life. A husband or partner when they are young (Persephone), a partner for marriage and children (Demeter) and later a partner in their mature years (Hecate).

The Hecate lover is very special. He is a wiser, more companionable man who respects the wisdom of his equal partner. Common interests rather than merely passion draw the mature woman and man together. You may have similar spiritual interests and pursue them together. You may love gardening, reading, long walks and interesting discussions. You have no small children, other than beloved grandchildren to interrupt your special hours together. You are truly comfortable with one another and the wrinkles and extra pounds don't mean a thing, other than you have truly lived life to the full!

Often at this stage if the Hecate has worked on herself, perfecting herself during her Persephone and Demeter stages, she will finally meet her twin flame partner, rather than kindred spirits and soul mates who owe her karma (positive and negative).

This ‘Soul Mate’ or ‘Twin Flame’ has incarnated to work by your side on your Life Plan and World Plan. This may be, as a great friend, teacher or lover, or hopefully all three! Tony and I believe we are truly, ‘Twin Flames’. That we wrote this concept into our life plans, before we incarnated, but, would not be able to meet each other, before we had reached a certain spiritual level of development.

By the time, you have reached a high state of spiritual development, hopefully, you have come to realise, that ‘beauty is only skin deep’ and that the most, spiritually beautiful people, are often very plain on the outside! The twinkle in their eye and the kindness of their heart fully make up for any physical imperfections!

One of the tests, on your spiritual journey, is discovering the true inner worth of a person. Subsequently, ‘Higher Soul Mates’ may be poor, average looking, of a different race or religion or in a different age group to you. But, once you discover their true inner worth, they become inseparable to you! They are your other half on this planet!

Often, you have met these ‘Soul Mates’, before in a past life, perhaps, as spiritual partners. The karma outstanding between you, if there is any, will always be positive, never negative. They are not here to give you a hard time - but, to help uplift you!

Normally, ‘Soul Mates’ or ‘Twin Flames’, will work on spiritual projects together, encouraging each other and complementing their skills. For instance, you may be a spiritual healer and your partner a naturopath. By using your skills holistically, you can aid your clients on many levels, physically and spiritually. Or you may be a spiritual teacher or counsellor and your partner, a wonderful administrator or researcher. By using your complementary skills, you increase your effectiveness.

Your priorities, when you come together with a true ‘Soul Mate’ or ‘Twin Flame’, will be different, to those you had, with former partners. This time around, the time honoured objectives, of bearing children, promotion in your work place and obtaining the best car and a home in a prestigious area, become secondary or disappear entirely! Your goals and objectives are primarily concerned with spiritual development. Yours and others.

You will instead, choose a home that is conducive to your work and to creating peace and calmness around you. Material success will be useful, but is no longer imperative. If it distracts you from your spiritual goal, you will often abandon it completely! With your new spiritual ‘Twin Flame’, you will live in a different, but fulfilling way, that makes sense to you both, if not to others! When you both feel contentment in your life and are actively pursuing your spiritual goals, there will be no need for either of you to find sexual relationships, outside your commitment.

You will be able to talk openly and deeply to one another, because you will not have to put on the usual male/female stereotypical behaviour. You will both work actively, to become balanced with your Yin (female) and Yang (male) natures. The male will become creative and more sensitive. The female more active and assertive. This enables you both, to explore new unopened worlds of experience. Neither sex has the control or power in the relationship. You work in unison not opposition.

How, then do you find your higher ‘Soul Mate’ or "Twin Flame"? First, begin to perfect yourself spiritually. Find the true spiritual being within yourself. Develop this kinder, compassionate, unconditionally loving person. Learn to respect yourself and develop your teaching, healing, artistic or counseling skills. Look objectively, at the problems in your life with detachment. How would you advise someone else, to handle these problems?

Now use the same, sensible advice, yourself. Remember, you are Spirit in a physical body. The material things around you, do not truly matter, they are only teaching aids!

Then, look at the psychological and emotional blocks, in your life. What makes you unhappy? Change your perspective and life, so that, these blocks no longer affect you. Create pleasure and peace around you! Associate with similar minded, spiritual people who are positively and actively living spiritual lives.

When, you have developed a wonderful peaceful, contented, rewarding, positive life, for yourself, where you are actively helping others with your skills, ask the ‘Universe’, to send you, your ‘Twin Flame’ to live with and work with, from the highest intent! Soon, the Universe will send the right person to you, but, you will have to be discerning enough, to recognise them!

Take your time, get to know them well. Observe, if they are truly living a spiritual life, as opposed to talking about living one. Then, allow love to naturally develop, between you. If this, is truly your ‘Twin Flame’, all will flow well, towards a spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically compatible relationship. Blessings in your search!

Remember in the past, you have fallen in love, this time you will both rise in love together!

Chapter Sixteen
Hecates and Health
"Realise that there is a spiritual purpose behind ill health!"


Illness is often sent to wake you up spiritually. You have written it into your Life Plan, that if you "fall asleep" and forget why you have incarnated, (to do your Divine Mission), then sickness can be sent to you to make you stop, relax and think about your life. Often, in our hectic active world, we never take the time to sit and wonder - what it is all about! Sickness makes us do that.

Frequently, a life threatening illness, will help to change the life perspective of a person. Suddenly, their old priorities are left behind. No longer does work, success and money, mean as much. Now their health and mental stability, spiritual life, friends and nature, take on new priorities. Sickness gives us a second chance to discover who we truly are!

Lady Kwan Yin, the Chinese Goddess of Compassion and Healing, has channeled this short message and exercise, to explain Illness. It is an extract from our free ebook 100 QUESTIONS.

"If you can discover the psychic reason behind it - all the better. It will make sense of the illness for you. This will also help you, to release this condition forever, once you have released all the emotions around the incident. In this way the sickness should not reoccur again.

Here is how it can be done-
1. Relax in meditation and surround yourself in an auric egg of golden/white light.
2. Ask your guides to show you the reason behind your illness.
3. View the reason with detachment.
4. Forgive everyone concerned and yourself.
5. Ask that the illness will not reoccur.
6. Thank all concerned.
This of course is a simplified version, but it works!

Don’t hate your medical condition, realise that there is purpose behind it! Maybe, you need to just take a break from your normal routine and rediscover yourself. Use the time to read spiritual books, meditate, contact your Spirit Guides and plan a positive future.

Blessings, Dear ones. Kwan Yin."

The Hecates of Earth have so much wisdom and so many talents to share with others, particularly younger women. You may have the skills of counselling, sewing, cooking, art work, writing, home management, finances etc., share them with others, charities, causes and younger women, please! Don't let your skills become dusty with disuse or allow ill health to prevent you helping others. Develop yourself mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually and the final stage of your human life will be full of fulfillment and happiness.


Chapter Seventeen
Persephone, Demeter and Hecate Combined.

"As a woman I have no country. As a woman my country is the whole world."
—Virginia Woolf


If all the Persephones, Demeters and Hecates consciously combined their individual power and personal skills, what a wonderful world we could create! As half the Earth's population, we could make immense changes to conditions on the planet. Here are some ideas how this could be achieved, in a special channelling from Isis.

"I am Isis the Egyptian Goddess who represents the power of the female Spirit. Please women listen to me! You have immense untapped power that you can use in Unity for the good of your planet Gaia. Imagine a future world in which all women supported and encouraged each other to their full potential. Encouraged all women to get higher education, be trained in responsible jobs and take on positions of authority. For women can do this, it is only their own insecurities and biased male opinions which stop this happening more fully now!

If all the women in the world voted for women in local and national elections for high offices, you would soon have an Earth compassionately run by female presidents and prime ministers. No wars, no famines, no racial or religious disputes.

If all women worked on their empathy all divisions between women of any nationality or religion would disappear. If all women used compassion and unconditional love as their higher aspects in meetings and agreements, what wonderful decisions you would make in your world assemblies such as the United Nations Organisation.

If women expressed their innate creativity on the planet, the Earth would soon be visually esthetic, mentally pleasing and emotionally satisfying. No severe, rectangular, masculine steel and glass buildings, but warm, secure, pleasant rounded buildings surrounded by parkland and beautiful trees and flowers, water fountains and music.

Women do not usually strive for the same objectives as men, they want quality of life, not quantity. Work hours would decrease and family activities increase. Women are drawn to spiritual concepts and expression. As leaders in the churches, they would be able to bring higher concepts, ethics and ideas into the home and workplace.

Women are often "naturals" at learning the higher psychic abilities, such as astral travelling, mind contact, spirit contact, healing and channelling. This could be taught to all children, female and male to promote a higher aspect of spirituality in our schools, workplaces and homes. Respect for each other and unconditional love would be encouraged by all parents and teachers.

If women were loyal to each other, no woman would fear having their husbands or lovers seduced by any other woman. Families would live contentedly and in harmony. Instead of women finding self worth through a man, they would have higher respect for themselves and act more nobly and consciously in a higher manner.

Older women would pass on their expertise to younger women and younger women put forward new ideas and concepts to encourage growth in society. Women and men would finally achieve equality in personal respect, wages, power and authority in the home and outside worlds.

The death process, instead of being a hidden, negative experience would be socially opened as a healthy, joyous opportunity for the soul to find release from a weary body. The soul about to depart for the higher realms would be lovingly and compassionately attended by a small group of loved family members and friends who would gently ease them into a pleasant death with warm surroundings, sweet scented candles, soft music and loving hugs and kisses. No one would fear death.

If women could free themselves from the tyranny of worrying about their outer beauty and current fashion concepts, much of their amazing inner energy could be used to pursue medical cures and fight world hunger and unrest. Inner beauty would reign! Does it really matter if you are considered too thin, too fat, too tall, too small, by others? Let yourself be uniquely beautiful by the loving light in your eyes and the kind expression on your face! Do not let male fashion trend setters, dictate who you are and your fashion worth - love yourself, respect yourself and dress and act as you wish!

Women, as the Persephones, Demeters and Hecates, can do amazing world changing actions, but you must not sit back and allow other women to be the vanguard, the pioneers. Each woman has a responsibility to herself and others to use her unique feminine power for the betterment of herself and others, female and male. Use your Spirit of the Female wisely, compassionately, in an unconditional loving manner and with higher respect for all beings, creating Unity with others and the Planet. The women of earth, young, middle-aged and mature can truly help to create a world of light and love!" Isis.

We hope that you have agreed with our insights on the role of women, young, experienced and mature, in the current era we live in, the 21st century. Women are strong, are gifted and are spiritual! Women can change the world! Let us begin to do it, NOW!
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